You Get What You Ask For ft. Duan Barrino - From The Bottom

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,000 Yo Q what up? 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Man I'm keeping it real what up duan? 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:08,000 Welcome 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,000 to not 5 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:14,000 just music 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,000 where we keep it real 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,000 and honest 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,000 always 9 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,000 how I really feel 10 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,000 my mama praying telling me Q 11 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,000 you need to chill 12 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,000 they can't respect the truth 13 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,000 what's going on it's your boy 14 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,000 Dwarne bringing you from not just music podcast 15 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,000 coming at you with another one 16 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,000 another quick 17 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,000 talk another quick 18 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,000 from the bottom another 19 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,000 explanation of feeling 20 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,000 another explanation of an example 21 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,000 you know some days 22 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,000 you just wake up 23 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,000 you know you really have to 24 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,000 get in a 25 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,000 mindset to where 26 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,000 you will not let anything 27 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,000 bother you 28 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,000 in a days time you have to 29 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,000 really really 30 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,000 push this on yourself 31 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,000 daily because 32 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,000 the thing is you can really allow 33 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,000 things that go 34 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,000 on in your life to 35 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,000 crash everything down 36 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,000 just due to what you are 37 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,000 allowing to keep 38 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,000 you down to keep you in a bad 39 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,000 position 40 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,000 I know that's hard to like really 41 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,000 grasp at times but like really 42 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,000 think about it right 43 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,000 think about that one thing that bothers you so 44 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,000 much right now that 45 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,000 won't change you pray about it 46 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,000 daily you focus 47 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,000 on it daily and guess 48 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,000 what it's just guess what it's actually 49 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,000 just standing up on top of you 50 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,000 it'll actually crush you before 51 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,000 it you know you crush it 52 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,000 trying to pray it away but at the same 53 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,000 time you're praying it away but you're like 54 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,000 literally you are literally 55 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,000 choking it to hold on to it to keep 56 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,000 it in your life in some kind of 57 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,000 manner because you're thinking about it 58 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,000 daily just like that 59 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,000 the people around you probably even 60 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,000 notice it too but you probably think like nah 61 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,000 nothing is wrong with me but again 62 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,000 that probably is the thing that's really 63 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,000 tearing you apart so really think 64 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,000 about that daily 65 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,000 when you wake up you know 66 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,000 especially people in the black 67 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,000 culture the black culture we have 68 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,000 it's already a hard thing to 69 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,000 deal with by just having the 70 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,000 melanin in our skin but at the same time 71 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,000 remember that a lot 72 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,000 of this stuff that we wake up to daily 73 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,000 is really just a mentality 74 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,000 it's a very very 75 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,000 very strong or having 76 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,000 a strong mentality to not 77 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,000 allow something to tear 78 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,000 you apart daily 79 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,000 when you wake up when you rise just think 80 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,000 about it start go ahead 81 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,000 and getting in that mentality to that 82 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,000 look today is going to be great say that 83 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,000 to yourself today is going to be 84 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,000 great I'm not going to let anything today 85 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,000 put me in a mentality where I think that 86 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,000 it would tear me up or put 87 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,000 me in a bad place with my own self 88 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,000 I will not allow 89 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,000 something like that I will be happy I 90 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,000 will push gratification I will 91 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,000 push success 92 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,000 forget the whole 93 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,000 situation of the what's going 94 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,000 on in front of me right now 95 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,000 let's push 96 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,000 the whole thing of success let's push the whole 97 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,000 thing of gratification let's push 98 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,000 the whole thing of I will 99 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,000 provide I will prevail let's do 100 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,000 these things like you know a lot of 101 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,000 people think like oh it's a bad position 102 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,000 to be a provider no it's not a bad position 103 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,000 to be a provider especially in 104 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,000 a man in a male 105 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,000 standpoint of you you know you really have to think 106 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,000 about it like God gave you that position 107 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,000 for a reason you're supposed to be able to do 108 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,000 that you're supposed to be able to stand up 109 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,000 and test those test the times with things 110 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,000 that come you're supposed 111 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,000 to get up early in the morning there's nothing wrong with that 112 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,000 there's nothing wrong with that 113 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,000 but at the end 114 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,000 of the day just make sure that you're going to be a 115 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,000 great person to yourself firstly 116 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,000 nobody really understands 117 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,000 you but you more than you 118 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,000 so why not put yourself 119 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,000 in a position that look 120 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,000 I'm going to do this I'm going to make 121 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,000 this happen this is going to be a thing 122 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,000 that will happen 123 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,000 but at the end of all of this just remember think 124 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,000 about it you get what you ask for 125 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,000 in your mental even in your mentality 126 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,000 of the way that you're thinking 127 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,000 remember you're getting what you're asking 128 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,000 for 129 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,000 if you're not asking verbally for 130 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,000 something you're going to get what's inside 131 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,000 of your head so verbally speak 132 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,000 things that will help 133 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,000 you that these things will help 134 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,000 you I know I'm one person to 135 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,000 know this because the case of 136 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,000 I told you what I was dealing with especially with 137 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,000 my skin you have to realize like 138 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,000 that was something that was beating me up 139 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,000 daily and I had to get to the point 140 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,000 where I was like you know what mentally in my 141 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,000 mental I was starting to tell myself look 142 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,000 you can do this this is going 143 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,000 to go away this is short term 144 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,000 this is nothing that's going to have you blocked 145 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,000 from doing anything 146 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,000 the only thing that was going to block me was 147 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,000 me telling myself that I could not do 148 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,000 it so at the end of the day I took the 149 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,000 chance to say that you know what I'm going 150 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,000 to do this I'm going to make this happen I'm 151 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,000 not going to let this thing get me or 152 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,000 put me in a position where I'm not going to be great 153 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,000 at anything that I'm shooting for 154 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,000 so yes at the end of the day yeah tell 155 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,000 yourself that that you're great 156 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,000 so at the end of the day 157 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,000 love on yourself 158 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,000 firstly take care of 159 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,000 yourself firstly if you can't take care 160 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,000 of yourself you can't take care of a single 161 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,000 thing that's surrounding you 162 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,000 alright 163 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:58,000 peace