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Yo Q what up?
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Man I'm keeping it real what up the what?
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Welcome
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to not
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just music
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where we keep it real
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and honest
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and honest always
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Again
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your
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your mental
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is you're going to treat yourself
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and how you should treat yourself
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but you gotta remember how you
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treat yourself is it
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the case of
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that you're going into it with the right mentality
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or you're not going into it with the right mentality
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like me like I give you an example
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I go
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I go make sense of things
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that I do so let me just let's
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go for example right so
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I'm putting in
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work okay
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you putting in work to go
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either relax
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have fun
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or you're putting in work to
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fuel a business or
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you're putting in
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to eat or you're putting in
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to take care of home there's
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different levels of what you're doing with
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what if you're trying to do all of those
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I'm a single man
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that's another thing
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but see this is another thing see
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I'm going to be honest with you
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business and I want a family too
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I'm business and I want you know
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what I'm saying you're in a bigger position
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though than you give yourself
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so for example
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for example
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you buy yourself
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in a sense
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you have kids but I'm going to tell you
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being having a spouse
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don't mean you save money
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I don't know
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it ain't even
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it ain't even about
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it ain't even about save
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no this is crucial what I'm about to say though
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when it comes to a spouse bro
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it ain't even about saving money
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it's about having that mental
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stability that
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genuine care that support from
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a person to me
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it's about money but it's not
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that's not the first thing in my mind
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I'm going to be honest with you
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I'm going to be honest I'm just giving you
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this is what I'm saying you been married before
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I've been in a relationship
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have you been married before
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so you can't speak on something you don't know yet
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but listen
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I'm telling you what I would look
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in just even in a relationship
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what I want from a woman
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I get your idea and your mentality
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of it but what your
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ideal situation
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is is going to be altered
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in a lot of ways
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why you say that? just because
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you don't know who you're going to be with
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you can't
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go into a relationship with an ideal
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but if you never even had
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but look if you never even
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had the slightest thing in support
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and a woman gives you just that
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you're going to feel like
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that's the world like oh my god
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I've never had a woman support me like
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this wow
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money is not even going to be on my mind
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at that point because
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a woman might not
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even bought me food in my life or whatever
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except my momma and she does it
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this is what kind of man I am and that's going to
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touch me that's going to I'm going to really be
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like oh my god and I've been around
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women that done things
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that no woman has ever done and
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they're like wow I just did that
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they shot like you taking
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this to heart I'm like damn like it's big
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you know what I'm saying like I ain't
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never had the slightest little things
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man you know what I'm saying to somebody say
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thank you for doing that for me
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let me ask you a question
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do you feel
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do you feel
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you feel the reward of it right
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right you just say it
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let me give you a big example
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of this right
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most cases
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is
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for me
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and we speaking of support right
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just as I say speaking of support nothing
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nothing to value right
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support is only
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a thing of
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confidence
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right for you
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meaning it gives you a sense
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of secureness right
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to me
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but she still
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but she still can hold it down if I
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fall though like she's gonna be there as a
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support
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instead of like I told
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you I had people looking at me like
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what are you gonna do what are you gonna do
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what are you gonna do Q I hope
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this work I hope this work instead of
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we got this we in
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this you know what I'm saying you fall
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I'm here for you you know what I'm saying
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you got this like who
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gonna be my cheerleader I don't I ain't have no cheerleader
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I ain't never had no
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cheerleader that's what I'm saying like
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the little is staying bro
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and I think I don't feel the reason why I'm
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saying the the part of support
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the older I get I'm not
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looking for it
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let me say that but you had it though right
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it's not the case I had it
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it's not let me let me
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let me give you this you talking from
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a mindset of a man that's been married
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and been with a woman over a decade
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you know what I'm saying but you're still
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speaking but I'm telling you what you're doing
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you're trying to tell me
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is it I don't know the case of it
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this ain't an argument bro
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I'm not arguing bro I'm not arguing
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I'm just speaking what I know
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I'm just speaking what I know I listen to what you're saying
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I just want to get one point across
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to you the way that
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you feel about a woman
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and what you expect from
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a woman you're not supposed to
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go into a relationship looking
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or expecting anything
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the reason being if you're
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coming in looking and expecting
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you're going to get totally the opposite of what
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you're looking for so let's
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be honest right you gotta
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and this is you go you go to the
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old Q Q was just going out smashing
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chicks down left and right right
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true story I ain't thinking nothing
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about friendships I ain't thinking about nothing about
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being serious I ain't thinking about nothing but
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you're building a rapport with your own
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self I'm what hold on hold on
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I'm what you're building a
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rapport to your own
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hit me out
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hit me out so you're going to
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look at women a certain
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way so like how you
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say you see a chick
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dressed a certain way that
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mentality is okay well
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she might be easy to get to
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or easy accessible just because
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the way she dressed right like you
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said chicks posting pics on
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Instagram and you know they got
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their butt out or whatever
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and sometimes in real life none of these
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chicks even dress like that listen I
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study women I got a degree in women
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studying now you see why I'm going let me finish
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let me finish go ahead
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cause I know cause look they be on
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most of them that I smashed was on
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the same game that I was on hence
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they just wanted to smash hence
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the reason why I say
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let me give you an example like this right
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say if you went into
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a relationship you
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didn't have two kids yeah
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it was just you yeah
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you didn't have to worry about
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paying out for kids it was just
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like I say it's just you right
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yeah so this is the thing
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that there's going to be a thing
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going on and I got an understandable baby
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mama by the way which is okay
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that's a beautiful thing yeah yeah I don't have to
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deal with that you know in the beginning it was
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wild but now it's at a
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great place so let me say this there's
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one supporter I don't care
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if she don't support business
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she's not a supporter in that but it's the case
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she support yeah don't give me
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no headache
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but that
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just hit me out
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hit me out see
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God don't give us blessings
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the way we feel they should come
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honestly you think I'm sleeping on my blessings
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I'm not sleeping on your blessings
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you're not sleeping on your blessings
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you're sleeping on yourself
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I'm still going to come down and back to this
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I was going to eventually get back to it
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but let me cut the chase a little bit
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the way you think is
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totally fine
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you're in endangerment
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mentality is like okay I'm
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not going to make this bad decision
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because of this I'm not going to make
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this bad decision because of that I'm not going to make
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this bad decision because of this right?
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so let me give you an example
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like I
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told you I hadn't been on a trip
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me and my lady had not
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been on a trip in two years
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considerably it
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was really just because
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it was time to buckle down
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it was time to work it was time to get the money
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up it was time to get all that stuff going
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it was time to do stuff like that right?
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that's what I
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have support in
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and what?
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hear what I just said
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she didn't ask to go on vacation?
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it ain't no ask to go on vacation
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it ain't bring up nothing about vacation
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it was about let's get this money up
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support is support let's work
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and now you get where I'm going with this
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see the thing is the part where
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your business comes in
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is where is your business that's why it's called
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your business it's a business it's an independent
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business it's owned by Q
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Q is the only one who can touch it make it move
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make it cry make it
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growl make it fool he is the
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only one the person that's
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behind you they're just behind you
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for whatever they can help you with though
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they can help you with but don't look for
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them to be like oh
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here's some extra money for your business
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to go do it don't look at it like that
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I'm looking at it the wrong way
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I got you now
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I'm going to be honest your baby mama
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that's a blessing
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but nah but
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it might be ugly moments
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it may be crazy moments
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but in a sensible manner
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that you can still come around
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and they know
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that's Q's son that's Q's daughter
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you know that
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it's nothing to the case of
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you showed up to the basketball games
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you're a dad it ain't like a situation
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where there's this situation where can't nobody
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ever come around I know some dudes like
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literally bro no but I was threatened though
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like you know her sisters was threatening me
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at the basketball game and that's again everybody ain't going to feel the same
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yeah but she didn't
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have a problem with it me being there
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my baby mama but the sister had
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a problem with me you know what I'm saying
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the whole family still got
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issues you know some family members got
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issues with me you know what I'm saying
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you know and this goes
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into the support you know what I'm saying
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and like I asked her
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and this another
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thing too I was like you know I got a movie
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out you going to support it
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and she was like
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and you tell me if this is wrong she
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was like I
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don't want to watch something that I'm involved with
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because it's going to make me go back in that time
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I respect you telling your story
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I don't have a problem with you putting your story
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out but I just can't watch
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it because it's going to take me back
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now am I selfish and this is a question
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for you am I selfish for being like
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wow so you ain't going to support my movie
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or should I understand her point of
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view like she gave me to go
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like okay it's cool
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you put the movie out
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so in a sense she's supporting
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that supporting the move for me putting it
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out but she's not supporting it
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by purchasing or watching it
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because she's in it
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it's sound
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you know what I'm saying yeah
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yeah and this goes into
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what we talking about support she has
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a very
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hmm
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and it's not
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bad it's not bad
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I'm going to tell you why
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nobody wants to look bad
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let's start there she don't
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want to look bad on
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the account to what you say
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if she feels she wants it to be
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let me look at it let me make
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sense of it did I do that
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yeah if it take me back to that moment
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and that time and it
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but to me in a sense
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if she gave you a green
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light that was support
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because you think about it bro
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that whole movie was
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a sense of you really putting
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your heart out
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there right and this is
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this is another situation
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to think about this right
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knowing that you have a movie now
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this is how you should move
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and this is giving you a small insight
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I just got this in my head like this
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the way you move
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with this situation now is
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you have a movie under your belt
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you need to find and brand
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an LLC to whatever you going
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to brand it to
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what you need to do now is
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you need to find people
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who are
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grantable
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situations where they can be like
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oh we have
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a $5000 budget we
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can give you to shoot your
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next movie
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but they won't believe it
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until again
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come up and get you a company
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if it's hold on make it go ahead and make
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that an LLC I got a script too
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and the script is crazy so the thing
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is what you go for you don't need a script
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what you go for now is you tell them
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that you're a production company
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movie production company
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you're into creating
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movies basically your movie production company
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your movie
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production company you did
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your first movie such and such
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hold on, hold on
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so basically you're explaining
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what the movie was, who it was
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under, how you did it the first
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time and you're looking to
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shoot a second movie
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you understand the situation
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of that it takes money, it takes time
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but I want it to be better than the first
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you want to improve
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and not only
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just by improving it will be a big
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help for to receive these
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grants from who this person is
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so I can promote it, promotion
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to whatever you need it for
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the biggest thing is though
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to make sure that you have
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an LLC and the
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reason why I was telling you the reason why I got
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LLC's for Not Just Music
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Podcast is because the case of
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moving forward I want to be able to do
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things
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what we're doing now is the setup
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this is the build
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this is the building, this is what we're
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doing, this all of this, this is the building
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it was going to take this
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in a sense but it
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wasn't going to just take just this, it was going to take
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the mentality too so even
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if we only had one camera, if we were just working with one
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phone, we sitting in front of one phone and we
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recording, we putting these podcasts
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together at the end of the day
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so you're saying the LLC's don't come in on this part
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it comes in on the business part
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business, if you're
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going to consider yourself to say this is
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this is a business
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this is something, the reason why I'm telling
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you this is because if you get
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cut on your name
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you're going to get
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everything that you have taken
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from you
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Quincy Murdoch is going to get
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every dollar
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every account stripped
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if you come up
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on the wrong side of something, business wise
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so is that why they suing
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Diddy and Not Bad Boy?
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do they sue, how do they sue
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when a civil suit happens
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against a person, they can
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just sue a person instead of a brand
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see
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the thing is, Diddy was operating
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things outside of his brand
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so anything he was doing, but what if it was within
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the business and he could sue them
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if it's receivable, paperwork
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worthy, yeah he's good
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he did a lot of what you call
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those, the
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what's the forms you signed
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1099 forms
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you promised not to say
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anything or have any discussion
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so
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let's say it like this
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this is simplified
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anything that you do under
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an LLC is under the
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LLC, anything you do
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not under the LLC
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is not under the LLC
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so if Diddy just telling
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people, look come through to the house
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come kick it with me, just come kick it
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with me, and it didn't come with a contract
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sign this
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to say this, like how Drake
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said he put together a sex contract
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because in case of somebody has sex with him they gotta sign
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this contract before that
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but what if it was a promise for a
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movie or a Grammy or something
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and you had to do this
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to get the
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free beat
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like if the wine
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okay, I'm not
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but like if you was like
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you were working with a female
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and you was like no you gotta do this sexual
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favor for me to get this beat, I give it to you
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for free
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does that go under the business?
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that goes under the situation
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of you made it personal
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so anything, cause see I'm gonna tell you why
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you can do stuff
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that be like okay you gonna do this for my
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business but you gotta remember
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what you say to a person
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is always gonna mess you up
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no this is always something somebody
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said to a person, well
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he said he made a sexual
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a sexual advance at me
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while he was walking down the hall
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yeah you at work but again
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certain things you can't, certain lines
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you can't cross to consider
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yourself that this is a business
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like an LLC license like I said
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it literally is not a thing of saying that it's
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protecting your soul cause you still
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can get every dollar took from you with
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having an LLC
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that's why I'm talking to you
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about it to see what's within the limits
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of the LLC
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it makes you liable, it's a liability
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license so how about
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about the movie
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okay if I got an LLC
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for the movie right
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but I
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made somebody feel comfortable with character
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in the movie, they can sue me
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instead of the LLC
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like the company right
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basically like so this is what you do
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take a
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take the route of contracting
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but I ain't worrying about that though
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that's why I told you
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take the route of contracting, if you contract stuff
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contracts put
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people in a position where they
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have to
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look, you gotta do this, you have to do this
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you have to do this and you have to do this
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all of this is under that LLC
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yes, as long as you have a logo
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saying that this under
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this is under the laws of
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this is under the like it will be for Not Just Music
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this is under the laws of Not Just Music Podcast
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LLC
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and we like I send that form out to people
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before they come on the show
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it makes it
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liable in a sense of via
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the contracted situation for
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Not Just Music Podcast
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so if it comes back, it goes back to Not Just Music Podcast
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it don't come back on me
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because the case of is for the business rights
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what the rights of the business are
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that's what you gotta go by the laws of that business
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if you ain't going by the laws of that business and whatever that
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contract meant, it ain't got nothing to do with it
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so once you start saying
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that's a lot of info man, that's deep
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you know what I'm saying, cause bro
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you can classify, you can try to classify
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under something and it's not even under that
573
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that's why I was like
574
00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:22,000
that's why I think a lot of people get jammed up too man
575
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cause they don't know
576
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,000
all the time
577
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,000
I'm gonna tell you another situation where people can mess
578
00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,000
themselves up with that too, like you just said
579
00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,000
word of mouth
580
00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,000
that screw people up, I'm gonna tell you why
581
00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,000
I'm gonna say why word of mouth hurts
582
00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:38,000
text messages, receipts
583
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,000
word of mouth is like one of the worst
584
00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,000
she say he say
585
00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,000
if it ain't promotion
586
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,000
word of mouth, outside of
587
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,000
promotional word of mouth
588
00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,000
that's a bunch of
589
00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,000
you can get yourself in some mess, Diddy's in some mess
590
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,000
just let's say that
591
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,000
Trump is in some mess
592
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,000
run in your mouth, you can't put it on
593
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your mouth, and once it
594
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,000
comes out your mouth, that's your problem
595
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,000
cause people can really sue you
596
00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,000
for stuff that comes out your mouth
597
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,000
that's it
598
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,000
if Diddy had that bad
599
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,000
situation bro, and the crazy
600
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,000
part is, it ain't just one person
601
00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,000
everybody that has
602
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,000
probably touched Diddy's
603
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,000
listen though, all this came out
604
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,000
all this stuff
605
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,000
all these allegations really started hitting
606
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,000
the room when he
607
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,000
settled that lawsuit so quickly with Cassie
608
00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,000
cause people bought him money
609
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,000
which people, which
610
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,000
you know what I'm saying, which shows me that
611
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,000
like maybe a lot of people see a payday
612
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,000
they do, even if it wasn't
613
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,000
like I said, it might have been
614
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,000
and I ain't trying to down
615
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,000
no victim I'm sorry, but a person might
616
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,000
have loved it in that moment
617
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,000
like I've had cases where
618
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,000
I've had relationships with
619
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,000
girls where
620
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,000
see I'ma put my stuff, I don't need them coming after me like
621
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,000
Diddy, but
622
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,000
we both knew
623
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,000
all of us knew what it was
624
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,000
everything that we did
625
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,000
like
626
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,000
you know, like
627
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,000
yo, you good, you need it
628
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,000
I'm good, you know, we both good
629
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,000
we understand, but the problem
630
00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,000
comes is when you years down the line
631
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,000
try to play a victim
632
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,000
like aw, he made me
633
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,000
do this, I didn't want to do it
634
00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,000
but nah, you knew you was
635
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,000
getting something from this, I was getting something from this
636
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,000
you know what I'm saying, like and that's
637
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,000
what, it's crazy man
638
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,000
that's why, like you say them contracts man
639
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,000
again, if you dealing with people
640
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,000
and that's why I say like the past
641
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,000
will haunt you if you
642
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,000
did something that you wasn't
643
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,000
supposed to do with somebody
644
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,000
it will come back on you man
645
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,000
like, I mean you gotta look at what Diddy was doing
646
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,000
this man has literally been giving things away
647
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,000
gave everybody all they masters
648
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,000
gave everybody this, it's like he was
649
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,000
making safe room for
650
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,000
just in case something go down
651
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,000
I already gave it, look, y'all got y'all masters
652
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,000
ain't got nothing to do with that no more
653
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,000
y'all got y'all masters, y'all can go live y'all life
654
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,000
y'all got y'all music, you can go live your life
655
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,000
look, Cassidy, this money
656
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,000
I already know what we
657
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,000
what I did with you, yeah, money hushed you up
658
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,000
so I'm gonna give you all this money
659
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,000
and then like you said, everybody saw this golden opportunity
660
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,000
to act
661
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,000
and that's what the solace is
662
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,000
really just act on
663
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,000
the situation of, but she was of age
664
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,000
right, she was of age, this whole situation
665
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,000
and like, okay
666
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,000
shouldn't it be a standard on that though
667
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,000
like, do you feel that way?
668
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,000
I mean, cause she wasn't
669
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,000
entitled, I don't care like
670
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,000
bro, that's
671
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,000
like me working with you right
672
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,000
and you saying I gotta do this
673
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,000
and do that, we have that
674
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,000
choice, I'm not gonna be like bro I ain't
675
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,000
doing, I'm gonna say I'm not doing it
676
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,000
I'm not sticking around, I thought
677
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,000
it's just a mindset
678
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,000
that I thought people would have
679
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,000
if you don't feel comfortable doing something
680
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,000
you're not gonna do it, like Lil Rod
681
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,000
his whole, like that situation
682
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,000
like why you didn't just leave the room
683
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,000
bro?
684
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,000
you know what I'm saying, like why you didn't
685
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,000
just leave the room, like
686
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,000
if I know right from wrong, like why
687
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,000
don't these other people know
688
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,000
and like, and you're participating
689
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,000
in this, she said he had her
690
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,000
looking for the guys with the big
691
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,000
you know, this and that, so you're
692
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,000
participating in this
693
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,000
you knowing what's going on
694
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,000
and you're doing it over and over and over
695
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,000
so you obviously didn't have that much
696
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,000
fear or regret in you
697
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,000
to keep doing it over and over and over
698
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,000
a lot of them people
699
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,000
Diddy ain't even like, from what I heard, ain't even
700
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,000
a violent person man
701
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,000
Diddy ain't no, if Diddy was a
702
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,000
violent person, if Diddy was a violent
703
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,000
person, we would have been known Diddy was a violent
704
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,000
person by now, I mean
705
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,000
I think it's really just the case of
706
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,000
Diddy had a lot of wants and fantasies
707
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,000
and things of that nature and it's a certain
708
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,000
lifestyle that he could live
709
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,000
and some people felt like they could probably
710
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,000
capitalize on it and they didn't
711
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,000
but at the same time, look at
712
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,000
what caused all of this
713
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,000
but now you wanna cry rape, you wanna cry
714
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,000
abuse and this and that
715
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,000
you wanna cry
716
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,000
rape, you wanna cry abuse
717
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,000
you know what I'm saying
718
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,000
that's where the issue comes in
719
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,000
but again
720
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,000
man, some of these people
721
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,000
don't have the opportunities and
722
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,000
the star struckness
723
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,000
that they're looking for in life
724
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,000
so they just try to make what Diddy got
725
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,000
going on, oh we can just mess up
726
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,000
what he got, it's easy to mess up
727
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,000
Diddy, Diddy ain't
728
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,000
he got plenty of money to play with
729
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,000
he got plenty of money to throw away but again
730
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,000
and going into support
731
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,000
where are all these people that was partying with Diddy
732
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,000
why they ain't speaking up
733
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,000
why ain't none of these people saying nothing about
734
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,000
Diddy, how good of a man
735
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,000
he was and what he did good
736
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,000
that's what I'm trying to understand
737
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,000
why can't
738
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,000
people talk about Diddy
739
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,000
and that's one thing
740
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,000
and I know we've been talking about Black
741
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,000
and we gonna keep it real
742
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,000
we love to see
743
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,000
one of ours
744
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,000
we jump on them when they're down
745
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,000
we jump on a Black person
746
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,000
we jump on them when they're down
747
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,000
that's what our race do
748
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,000
kick em hard too
749
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,000
yeah and look I don't see
750
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,000
nobody going harder on Diddy
751
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,000
than the Black community
752
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,000
I don't see no White people really
753
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,000
out here going hard on Diddy like
754
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,000
Black people are
755
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,000
we tearing them up
756
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,000
but these were the main ones in Poppin Bottles Ayy
757
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,000
in Miami you know what I'm saying
758
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,000
Miami done left, went back to the
759
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,000
baby daddy
760
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,000
that's what we Black folks do
761
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,000
you know what I'm saying
762
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,000
where the support at though
763
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,000
and that's the part where I told you
764
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,000
look at how fast all his support
765
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,000
went out of the door
766
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,000
look at all these people that had deals with him
767
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,000
jumping ship
768
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,000
he ain't dealing with Diddy no more
769
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,000
he ain't putting no money in his pocket
770
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,000
he got no money going on man
771
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,000
that's another thing too
772
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,000
they think you got it going on
773
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,000
but what you going through
774
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,000
they don't know the sacrifices you made for it
775
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,000
but then that'll stop them
776
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,000
from supporting you too by the looks of it
777
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,000
Diddy's a billionaire
778
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,000
then you read stuff like
779
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,000
he owns a hundred million on the mansion
780
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,000
everybody dealing with something bruh
781
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,000
that shouldn't stop you from
782
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,000
supporting because somebody had
783
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,000
support
784
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,000
support man
785
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,000
this is the thing I was saying too
786
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,000
like you just said
787
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,000
this goes back to that
788
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,000
the first part we were basically talking about
789
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,000
you know
790
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,000
support, you have to get out here
791
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,000
and hit every spot
792
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,000
until you find a spot
793
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,000
that is willing to
794
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,000
accept you, that's the biggest thing
795
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,000
that's basically
796
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,000
my biggest thing
797
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,000
you have to go where you feel that love
798
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,000
you went all the way to Lagos
799
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,000
a lot of people don't get to go to Lagos
800
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,000
a lot of people don't get to go
801
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,000
to these
802
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,000
I mean just pick a country
803
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,000
Australia, people don't get to go to Hawaii
804
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,000
people don't get to go to
805
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,000
Jamaica
806
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,000
like you went around
807
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,000
these are no little
808
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,000
small things, these are big things
809
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,000
these things don't have
810
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,000
a lot of people don't do this
811
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,000
that's an opportunity
812
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,000
for one
813
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,000
you think about it, again
814
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,000
you go to Lagos
815
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,000
a lot of people don't get to go there
816
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,000
one, two
817
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,000
there's a land of opportunity there
818
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,000
so you ain't just get to go there
819
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,000
you got to go there and do multiple things
820
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,000
shot a video, music video
821
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,000
yeah I could do that here in America
822
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,000
but I had the opportunity
823
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,000
to do it in a different country
824
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,000
so it's a different
825
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,000
but the support though here
826
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,000
going back to support
827
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,000
they'll look at that and they'll get jealous of it
828
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,000
instead of embracing it
829
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,000
like our people are just
830
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,000
all he did there
831
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,000
he think he better, too many people
832
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,000
instead of supporting it, too many people
833
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,000
you know what I told you, the whole situation
834
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,000
even when we first met
835
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,000
the whole situation of me and what I had
836
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,000
in Africa with them people, boy it was very big
837
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,000
and it's still probably very big
838
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,000
I got to the point where
839
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,000
the giving
840
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,000
was becoming more substantial
841
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,000
and being such a giving person
842
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,000
was starting to run its course
843
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,000
so again
844
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,000
that's basically what I'm saying to you still though
845
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,000
the love, where the love is
846
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,000
that's where you pour
847
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,000
the most of yourself into
848
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,000
where the love is, if the love is there
849
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,000
you pour yourself into that
850
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,000
don't pour yourself into the cups that's already full
851
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,000
we're in a situation now
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in America, we're full, there's too many people here
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there's too many people, there's too many people to like
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bro, they hit me up, what's out
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be jumping just from people that I
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met then
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and still think about you
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and you all the way across the world
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and I can't even get a call from a person I went to school with
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my whole life and he lived right down the street
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from me
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and somebody from all the way across the world
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is thinking about little old Quincy Murdock
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thinking about me, like I said
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like I started out by saying it's the small things for me
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that mean so much to me
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you know what I'm saying, some people
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will never get it, some people will never get that support
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though
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the smallest support
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goes a long way, again like I said
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and then again, like I said, being in the right
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place, that's definitely
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going to be a
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motivational thing, I'm not like
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the biggest motivational person
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to speak to sometimes
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because I'm going to give a sense of
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tough love in a sense somewhere in it
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because in the case of, that's what got me
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to my position
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of want and
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wanting more and taking advantage
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of these situations that we do have
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where we can get ourselves out there
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but you're a great person though
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and that's why I'm saying
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if we had a whole lot of yous in the world
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the world would run differently, the world would be a better place
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you're right, you're right
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people that actually want to see you succeed
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want to see you do better
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that's what we need
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because it's the opposite, people don't want that
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that's why you think I told you
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don't worry about the supporters
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the supporters will come
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I guarantee you, put out
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about 4 more movies
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supporters will come, put out about 6 more movies
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there's going to be some more supporters coming
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and I can do it bro
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when you ready, when you ready to do it
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it's not the case of
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don't look at every situation
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as like, need the money
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just know that you have it
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we have the tools man
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and I'm working, I have income
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we got to have the right mentality
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we done did it one time
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we done did it once
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like I said, like we said I went to Africa
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if I went to Africa one time
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why would I doubt myself
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like I can't do it again
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or go somewhere else
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if you did it one time, you can do it again
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what's going on, it's your boy Duann
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from Not Just Music Podcast
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make sure you stay tuned for next week's episode
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alright, peace
