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Yo Q what up?
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Man I'm keeping it real what up the what?
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Welcome
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to not
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just music
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where we keep it real
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and honest
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and honest always
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Whats going on its your boy Dwarne Burino
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not just music podcast Quincy Murdock in the buildings
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always and the Thursday
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whats happening man how you doing?
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Everything good man whats up?
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Good good
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How's everything been coming
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since the last shoot?
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Everything good
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Bless, bless Holly Faber
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Life is what you make it
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you know its what I make it
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so everything good man
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family good
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We're just getting closer to you
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But yeah man everything good man
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How about you man? Everythings good man
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No complaints
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Keep trying
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Taking shots
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Taking advantage of
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life's daily
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tribulations
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daily trials
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and daily goods
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I'm not going to sit here and make it seem like
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everythings just like a
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bubble of bad because
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people need good energy man that's why
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we come and do this stuff
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we come and sit in front of these cameras and sit here like we mad
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and upset and angry at life
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but we try to be motivators and
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motivate peoples mindsets to be better and do better
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and to gain
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and give knowledge and do things and talk about
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people that have done things
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and had to deal with the struggles
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and had to deal with the pains
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of growing and getting older
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and wiser and things to that
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nature but
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as we've been talking
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the whole situation of
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inventors and black inventors and things
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of that nature
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that's one thing that I see that's
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been a very successful topic
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regardless of whatever we think
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to whatever everybody else does it's not about
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flying with the winds it's about keeping
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focused and staying on task with what we have to do
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that's what we plan to do here
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not just music podcasts it's not going to be anything
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changing up we may deviate and talk about
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different topics and different things but it's a lot
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to talk about but again
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the key is it's not a lot of people talking about
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actual black topics
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that's having like actual bubble behind it
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like it means something
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it's not like no sit up and be a headache or
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what does that mean
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a lot of this stuff is straight forward straight to the point
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then it's like I say
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sticking highly to
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doing research
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lately
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again it's not like
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the internet is small the internet is huge
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I was talking to somebody
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an actual artist
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that's out of Cali this week
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and one thing me and him
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we were very very
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at each other about
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one type of conversation
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and that type of conversation is
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understanding that
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business is
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bigger than a lot of
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people put
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as
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a business has a lot more to do
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with more than just saying I have a business
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and one of
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those things was you know
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taking the
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initiative of using social
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media as like a home for
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business and you know nothing
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is nothing wrong
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with using a social
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platform to run
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a business but that's what you just make
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it that's what it's going
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to cap out it's going to top off because it's
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only a social
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media business
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a lot of people
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think inside the box like that
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there's nothing wrong with that
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but the hardest part is there's a
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world outside of social media
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and the heart
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the heart you go ahead
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right but a little bit
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about my city Statesville
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it's a rural area man
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there's really no opportunity there we've been having
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an empty mall there
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we have one mall empty mall
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that basically is just an empty
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building right now with no stores
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it's been in
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there you know been up for years
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and it's like buildings
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does not use and
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this is getting
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on what you're talking about because it is you know
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you have to step out but a lot
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of places like where you're at also
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is a hinder you know
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I'm saying because everybody that's tuned in
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is familiar with Statesville
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my city my town no
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there's no opportunity there like
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the attitudes
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are dead there like the job forces
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are dead like it's
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really it's like a dead city
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know what I'm saying so in order to
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to go out to the other
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cities and states
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it takes money
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and a lot of people
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want to get out like me included I want to move
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you know I want to move out of my city
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but it's like financially
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I'm not at the point where I can
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just up and move right now
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because of the you know the economy
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you know what I'm saying but
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I get what you're saying on that
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I wanted to throw that in there because
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you know that's another thing that holds
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a lot of business people back
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is economic and
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financial you know
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struggles you know trying to move
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because there's plenty of places I
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feel like I could prosper in just
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people in general like
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business people instead
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of just a small town like Statesville
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because there's really no opportunity there
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but yeah
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Speaking of opportunity do you feel that with you speaking on it do you feel there's ways to fix it or you just express it?
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I mean I work a 9 to 5 right now
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I work a 9 to 5
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like the previous episode we were talking about
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I was talking about
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people guiding you or educating you on things
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I think that's what's lacking in my situation
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like you know to make that move
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like to actually
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you know what I'm saying
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to walk me through it a little bit
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because you know
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just getting out of the
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you know just relocating is a different thing when you never did it before
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so having somebody educate you on the steps and stuff like that
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so that's really what it is
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I mean
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and of course financially but then again
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like I might have the finances
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but I might not even be educated enough to know
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like I might be able to get grants on houses or this here
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I don't know how this city is
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or how this country or how that state is
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so it might be rules that can help me
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so educating myself and having educators around me
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I think that would help a big deal
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different strokes for different folks
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that's really the thing
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everybody doesn't have the same mentality
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that's going to be the first thing
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everybody's an individual
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it's not like a rule to money
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the only way to make money is you got to go make it
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considerably
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I think that's the thing
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considerably
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a person of interest that seems worthy of moving
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is always going to be up to that person to me
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I mean just
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I was the person I had to move
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you know what I'm saying
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like I stayed in Charlotte
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but I still moved to the outskirts of Charlotte
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to do what was needed
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speaking of an internet based situation
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like I was saying
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I mean you got to look at it
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the internet is only but so wide
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it's only but so far you can spread yourself
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as a business
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one, two
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more so the mentality
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as well again
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we talk about like somebody that wants something
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I mean there's this thing of want
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and then there's this thing of need
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you got to pick which one is on your plate first
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if you need it
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you got to go get what you need first
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before you go and take off of what you want
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that's the hardest thing
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especially trying to rationalize things in your mind
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from day to day
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nine to five
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or beyond
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whatever shift you work
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how many hours are you working
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how much time
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I've heard that a lot of times from people in their early 20s
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they ask a simple question
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how do you get where you get to
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honestly it's just about
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the consistency of what you want
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if you're consistently going to work
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and doing it at the level
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and the achievable level
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that's possibly human
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you got to do it how you feel
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hardest thing is to get going
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and staying at it
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and creating a space where you know
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that the money can be saved
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and taken care of
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but at the same time
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where the money should go to
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again it should be up to what you need
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not per se what you want
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in the cases of need
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where you stay at
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water
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running water, you got power
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do you have food
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what are you doing daily
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do you have paper towels, tissue in your house
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those are the necessities
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do you got what you need to get back and forth to work
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if you got a car, car insurance
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if you don't have a car
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you're paying for Uber, taxi driver
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whatever it is that you have
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it has to be a sensible situation for you to go day by day
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but to me, and this is going to what you said
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here are these opportunities for grants
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here are these opportunities for loans
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whichever one you want
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you have to go look for it
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their banks, their organizations
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and that's part of the reason why I was saying to him
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it's not the case of you need the people
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if you need the funds, you can go get funds
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but you have to go to the right places
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not everybody gives funds the same exact way
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one thing that a lot of people don't do is
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this is as first as a business
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if the case of the business is really serious
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and you're serious about it
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get your LLC license
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LLC's prove that you want to be a company
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that's the first thing
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this is the meeting grounds for people who need to know this
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LLC is the first step that you're going to shoot for
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when it's time to become
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you're going to say that you want to be a business
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go for that
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the reason being
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this is a stamp for your approval
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to anybody that's willing to work with you hand in hand
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meaning if you want to go get a loan in your business
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you got to have an LLC
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if you want a grant to your business
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you have to have an LLC
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no way around it
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there goes the hint right there
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that's the big hint
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if you don't have money
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if you don't have money to move your business
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LLC first
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first thing first
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if you don't have funds
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you're going to need an LLC
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and that's the thing
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you shouldn't be worrying about that
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before you even go get your pick your name
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put a name on anything
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create anything
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get your LLC
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reason being
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the LLC is going to solidify you as
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this is a business
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meaning if this company wants to give you a million dollars
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they can't give a million dollars to your name
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they can
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but the thing is
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the name is going to a risk
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it's a risk factor
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of going to a name
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put it on the LLC
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here's the business side of it
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here's what they're going to look at
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they're going to look at
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okay this is business
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we can put that as business right off
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we can put that as this
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you can mark it as a certain way
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when they say thing of
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it's an LLC
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meaning that
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it makes you
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solidifies you
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as a brand
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a lot of people won't take
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that first step to go for an LLC
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they just get out
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go start selling their little trinkets
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you know they little
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they selling little stuff on the side of the road
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selling bracelets
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and selling jewelry
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and selling these things
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that they get it popping
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and they ain't got some money
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a good group of money going
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but then they're using that money
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to not put it back in the business
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they're putting it into their personal pockets
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your business ain't winning that way
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it's not going to win
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so if you need money
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and you're trying to make money from your business
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that's not the way to do it
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right out the gate
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until your money is making
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so much that you can live off of that business
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off of that situation
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that's when you're considering yourself
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a big time situation
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but most people
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won't take
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that first step
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to say that look
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I'm going to get my LLC
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or whatever that license is
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that you choose to pick to call yourself a corporation
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or a business
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that is the first thing that
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I don't care where you go
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how you do it
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find your state
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look it up online
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it's easy to find on Google
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just search it
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there will be a way that you're going to have to pay something
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in that guide
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or down the road
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you're going to have to spend some money somewhere for that LLC
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but again
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if it's the case of you know your business
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needs money
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that's the first thing, get an LLC
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the second thing is to me
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need to put together a business plan
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write it out
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what makes your business so good
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such of a purpose
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that somebody is willing to take
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a chance and give you money
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that's
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people just ask your own self first
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if somebody came up to you and said
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I need money for a business and you know
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if you're the type of person
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you stingy with your money you ain't going to just give it to them
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you know, what's the reason
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why, why should I give you this money
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you know
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there has to be a business plan
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put together that is so precise
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to what you need and what you're going to do
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to make whoever this company is
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look into what you have going on
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that's another
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opportunity right there
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a lot of people don't know like Coca-Cola
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you guys, all these big companies
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like Lay's and
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excuse me, Frito Lay
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all these companies
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that's willing Pepsi
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giving away stuff
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but if you don't have a business plan
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put together
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it's going to be hard for them to understand
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exactly what you are coming for
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what you need from them
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so the next part of thirdly
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thing meaning
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off of coming off of a business plan
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write it out
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like type it up
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make it something that's very nice
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and the last part
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of all of this is
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when you make it type it up, make it look very nice
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make sure that it's in a form or letter
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or the situation of a letter
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and make sure that it makes sense
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make sure it's legible, make sure you don't mess up any words in it
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you know, fine tune it
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the last part to me
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is the biggest part
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which is what I was saying to
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him, you know
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if it's the case of
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if you own the internet and own
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tied into the internet
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how many people actually do Google searches anymore?
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how many people actually
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go into Google and be like look
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I need to find this or I need to find that
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I need to see this, I need to see that
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there are plenty
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of people who are looking to give
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grants, the biggest thing is
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you have to go onto their websites
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go into whatever
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portal they have on their websites
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they have these
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some of them just easy, sponsorship
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go into their sponsorship page or whatever
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they're using, click on it
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see what they're looking for, see what
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the actions are that they're willing to do
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read into it, they have it to where you
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can send your info, there's your chance
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right there, you have your
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business plan, you have what you typed
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up, what you need, send it to them
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see what they say
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this is, I mean
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there is so much, so many opportunities
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sitting on the table, 10,000, 15,000
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20,000 dollars, 50,000
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sitting on the table right now, but nobody
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knows how to get to it, that's one reason why
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right there, that's the, I gave away one
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of the biggest ways to get money to your
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business, easily
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and the case is, you had
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that opportunity, you could push that
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it's not a thing of, it's not
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going to be ever a thing of, it's
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not an opportunity to become a bigger
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business than what you are, it's just
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what your mind is willing to tell you
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to do, you know, if you're at that point
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though, it's like, over your head
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take a step back, look at it
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take a step back, look at it
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and look at it in the sense of
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okay, what did I do?
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what was I doing? what put me in that
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position to be in that position?
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then what am I going to do to fix that part
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that I'm not paying attention to?
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and that's why I always approach it
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like
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debt, business kinda, I don't
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go, cause I know
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you talked about
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you know, going head in, we talked
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about that on the Think A Homer, so
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like going head in
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like, my
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personality is like, it's easy for me
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to walk away
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from it, cause I don't really, you know
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I'm saying, go all in with it
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and I think that's just
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a
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that's just a characteristic that I grew
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man, like, you know I'm saying
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like, and
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I know there's people out here that
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like me, and that's why I want to explain it
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it's a characteristic that you
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grow, like, kinda like
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a person that's so used to doing
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things by themselves, and
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they feel like
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if I lose this, I
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have nothing, I have nobody to
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rely on, I have nothing to rely on
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so that person is kinda
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they wanna do it, but it's like
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I gotta be cautious and careful
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also, so it's like that little bit
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of doubt in your mind
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but you got that hunger to do it
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but it's like
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gambling bro, you know what I'm saying
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if you gamble, you know
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unfortunately, the win bid, you gotta
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put all your chips up, sometimes like
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and you might lose them
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and that's the thing, some people
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on their own, some people
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you know, like
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that might be all they got, you know
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they fall, they fall
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you know, like, yes
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they might have parents physically alive
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but some parents are not even
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financially stable now
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like, you know, with the economy, like as you started out
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a lot of people are getting older
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you know, we're getting older
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you know what I'm saying, our health could get bad
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any day, so that's
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nothing to take lightly either
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your health, man, like people dying
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left and right, so
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you know, that plays a
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part into it too, what would you
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say about that, like people that's
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kinda like-minded like me
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and like people like me, like
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you know, with those situations
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that risk
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yeah, that's
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that's one I hate to
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I mean, and that's why
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and I wanna
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I wanna explain it on my part because
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to people like you
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that's looking at, cause you're
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you're a risk taker, for sure
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you know what I'm saying, and I know
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sometimes you will
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look at me like
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I'm not saying this, but I'm saying like
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why is he not on my
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mindset that I have, and it's like
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yeah, I have the intentions
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I wanna go where you're going
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but it's like, if I lose
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this, what do I do, like if I
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if I put all this in this
573
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and it don't work, what do I do
574
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,000
that's kinda how it is
575
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,000
and I know it's not
576
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,000
right, but it's just that
577
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,000
it's just how it is based off
578
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,000
past experiences in life
579
00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:55,000
bro, you know what I'm saying
580
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:57,000
growing up, you know what I'm saying
581
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,000
I mean, real life
582
00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:01,000
you said it, growing up
583
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,000
you grow up
584
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,000
and
585
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,000
the only
586
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,000
let me tell you the only difference in mentality I see
587
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,000
yeah
588
00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,000
and this is not to say
589
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,000
take this personally
590
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,000
I don't take nothing personal bro
591
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,000
I'm talking just period, for a cursing period
592
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,000
yeah, anybody
593
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,000
you can relax, calm down, calm down
594
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,000
relax, there's nothing I'm gonna say that's insulting
595
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,000
nah, I like that, I like honesty
596
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,000
so in the case of the mentality
597
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,000
the mentality of what you have
598
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,000
is, you're saying that
599
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,000
you're scarred from your past
600
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,000
that's gonna be the problem
601
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,000
that's your problem
602
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,000
so how do you get over that though?
603
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,000
you have to get over it, that's the part
604
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,000
see the thing is, the scars that I got
605
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,000
I got over them
606
00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,000
and if it was
607
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,000
something that you
608
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,000
how you say you lose it all
609
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,000
you're going to lose it all
610
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,000
but you're going to have to get it back
611
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,000
regardless of, so let's say it like this
612
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,000
but can I ask, did you have a
613
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,000
support system?
614
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,000
when you lost most of these
615
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,000
battles? see I'm gonna
616
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,000
tell you this, like
617
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,000
and I'm not trying to compare bro
618
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,000
I have a mother
619
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,000
that's currently
620
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,000
not working, her health
621
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,000
is bad, my father was absent
622
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,000
my whole life, you know what I'm saying
623
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,000
my grandparents
624
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,000
can't really, you know they older
625
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,000
they don't work
626
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,000
you know what I'm saying, they barely getting by too
627
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,000
that's all I had
628
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,000
that was the main family I had
629
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,000
to raise me, so
630
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,000
everybody is looking at me
631
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,000
if this, like
632
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,000
even the music or anything I do
633
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,000
they always looked at me like
634
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,000
if this don't work
635
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,000
this is your fault, this is on UQ
636
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,000
are you going to make this work?
637
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,000
so imagine that pressure
638
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,000
on a person like, you know what I'm saying
639
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,000
instead of a person, people being like
640
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,000
oh you got this Q, we in this together
641
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,000
like we support you, they're looking at
642
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,000
me like
643
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,000
are you going to make this work?
644
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,000
what are you going to do?
645
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,000
you know what I'm saying, and it's good
646
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,000
to have that pressure
647
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,000
but it's good to have
648
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,000
the support too, like
649
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,000
since adolescence
650
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,000
to a baby
651
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,000
to now, I've always had that
652
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,000
pressure in, what are you going to do?
653
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,000
all eyes on you Q, I never have somebody
654
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,000
be like open arms, like
655
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,000
come here, we got you, I got you, like what are you
656
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,000
going to do Q? so the pressure
657
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,000
that's the mindset that I have
658
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,000
when it comes to business
659
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,000
I like that, that's what I'm saying
660
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,000
I'm open to
661
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,000
and it's deep
662
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,000
so let me get you
663
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,000
let me get you, let's say it like this
664
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:47,000
you speak of
665
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,000
this support thing a lot
666
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,000
let me get you
667
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,000
that's something you need to
668
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,000
stop taking to heart
669
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,000
let me get you why
670
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,000
let me give you a real reason why
671
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,000
I'm talking about time, right?
672
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,000
when I told you about time two homosols ago
673
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,000
when I got back, I told you about time
674
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,000
let me tell you about time
675
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,000
you only have so much time with the people
676
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,000
that support you to be here
677
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,000
so just look at this, you talk about how your mom
678
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,000
is sick, you know, things just going through
679
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,000
things, you know, she can't work, you know
680
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,000
you're not having your dad like that, you have your grandparents
681
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,000
your grandparents really not able
682
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,000
and a lot of people looking at Q, it's like Q, this is going to happen Q
683
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,000
this has got to happen Q, if it don't happen
684
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,000
it's only you, it's only you, everything going to fall out
685
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,000
so let me ask you this, would you put that kind of
686
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,000
pressure on your kids?
687
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,000
based off how
688
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,000
be honest, would you put that
689
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,000
would you put that kind of pressure on your kids?
690
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,000
based off how I feel
691
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,000
no, based off how I feel
692
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,000
no, because
693
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,000
the worst thing
694
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,000
like this is what somebody told me
695
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,000
my father wasn't there
696
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,000
and you spoke on this before
697
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,000
my father wasn't there, but
698
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,000
the worst part
699
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,000
is having a father there
700
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,000
and not even being a father
701
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,000
I read that you not even be in my life
702
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,000
you know what I'm saying, so to have
703
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,000
physically have people around you
704
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,000
not just family, but even
705
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,000
like just people that you did
706
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,000
movies with, that you
707
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,000
they breathing
708
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,000
they alive, and they don't
709
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,000
support you, excuse my
710
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,000
that stuff hurt
711
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,000
and it's like
712
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,000
we went into it together
713
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,000
on good terms
714
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,000
so I'm looking at it like
715
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,000
that's just my loyalty
716
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,000
I guess, I expect
717
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,000
more from people than I should
718
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,000
that's another thing
719
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,000
I expect people to be
720
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,000
real like me
721
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,000
I expect that same genuine love
722
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,000
that I give, but I'm learning
723
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,000
it's not always returned
724
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,000
it ain't always returned
725
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,000
it ain't always returned
726
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,000
that's a
727
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,000
I
728
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,000
let's say it like this, and again
729
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,000
the support
730
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,000
there's a different thing from
731
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,000
having support
732
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,000
than
733
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,000
a person that's doing a job
734
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,000
it's two things
735
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,000
and it's like, just like how you said
736
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,000
you got some people who come to a job
737
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,000
go to McDonald's and work everyday, go to Bojangles and work everyday
738
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,000
go to Wendy's and work everyday
739
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,000
everybody in that building ain't got the same mentality
740
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,000
because some just coming there
741
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,000
this is just a job
742
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,000
once I do that, I do what I need to do
743
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,000
to make the job look good, I look good at it
744
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,000
guess what, when this job over with
745
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,000
I'm gone
746
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,000
y'all ain't gonna hear from me, y'all ain't gonna see me on the weekend
747
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,000
we ain't going out to have no fun
748
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,000
we ain't going to drink together
749
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,000
we ain't going to do none of that
750
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,000
all we gonna do is
751
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,000
work together, that's it
752
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,000
ain't nothing outside of that
753
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,000
meaning, like you just said
754
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,000
support
755
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,000
I done been in positions where
756
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,000
let me get you, this is me
757
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,000
I been in a position where
758
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,000
I had to start a business
759
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,000
by myself, ain't nobody believe in it
760
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,000
the first thing is though
761
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,000
I had to believe in it
762
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,000
and I keep telling
763
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,000
like you and saying
764
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,000
support, support is only gonna be
765
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,000
for those who want to be
766
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,000
supportive
767
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,000
you can work with a person
768
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,000
dead on everything
769
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,000
put them in
770
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,000
everything is if
771
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,000
I'm gonna put all this stuff on the line with you
772
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,000
or if I'm gonna put all of this
773
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,000
opportunity
774
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,000
talent on the line with you
775
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,000
there's different ways you can put things on the line
776
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,000
with a person, but the biggest one
777
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,000
as I've always said is
778
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,000
when we say support, support is hard to come by
779
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,000
the reason why support is hard
780
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,000
to come by is because nobody
781
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,000
believes like you
782
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,000
nobody believes
783
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,000
like you, and I'm gonna give you a big
784
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,000
example, right
785
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,000
and it's gotta do with locations
786
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,000
like I was talking about too
787
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,000
I give you a good thing on location
788
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,000
I'm gonna tell you a good thing on it, right
789
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,000
I've been in a position where I've been in a
790
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,000
great location and I still didn't win
791
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,000
I've been in
792
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,000
great locations for short
793
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,000
periods of time, couple days
794
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,000
and felt the energy
795
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,000
felt people energy, Atlanta
796
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,000
so let me give you an example
797
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,000
so you just said it, you just said it
798
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,000
so here's what you just said
799
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,000
it's not about the case of
800
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,000
like can I say your experience
801
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,000
I had, I was just
802
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,000
I went my first trip to Atlanta
803
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,000
I was just coming out of a store
804
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,000
and somebody had
805
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,000
gave me, a black gentleman
806
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,000
had gave me an Atlanta brave ticket
807
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,000
just out the blue
808
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,000
just genuine, you know what I'm saying
809
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,000
I was like wow, that was my introduction to Atlanta
810
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,000
I'm like man
811
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,000
that's how they do it down here
812
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,000
he's like man you a brother man, you black
813
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,000
you know what I'm saying, I never felt
814
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,000
that kind of look so that right there
815
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,000
made me, like you
816
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,000
never witnessed that, felt that
817
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,000
it made you like dang
818
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,000
the mindset is different here
819
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,000
you know what I'm saying, it's different
820
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,000
hospitality lies differently
821
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,000
in every, any place you go to though
822
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,000
right, right, it don't
823
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,000
it is a different, like I said it's a different
824
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,000
fit for everybody, right
825
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,000
if you ain't in the right place
826
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,000
you have to make that change your own
827
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,000
it's not like everybody
828
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,000
is going to be able to make a change and be like
829
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,000
oh this change was for the best
830
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,000
but let me say this though
831
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,000
still, there are people that go all out
832
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,000
and move and spend every dollar
833
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,000
they have
834
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,000
and redo their life when they get to
835
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,000
the next place that they are trying to get to
836
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,000
even without support
837
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,000
and see this is the thing
838
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,000
you have to find that place
839
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,000
where if I got $5,000
840
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,000
sitting to the side
841
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,000
I could at least take $1,000
842
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,000
of this to put
843
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,000
myself in position to move
844
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,000
even going out places bro
845
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,000
even just going out, you meet
846
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,000
new people, like I'm going to Dreamville
847
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,000
next week
848
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,000
I'm going to Dreamville
849
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,000
I don't know when it's coming out but
850
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,000
and you never know
851
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,000
people lose the concept
852
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,000
of these kind of events
853
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,000
like you just came from a cruise
854
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,000
it's different people
855
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,000
coming from all over
856
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,000
you never know who you can connect with
857
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,000
you never know who you're going to see
858
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,000
and that's the thing about moving
859
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,000
it's not even big as moving
860
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,000
visiting somewhere and building
861
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,000
a connection
862
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,000
something simple as that
863
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,000
because when you're stuck in a
864
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,000
town like mine, Statesville
865
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,000
it damn just, you feel like this is it
866
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,000
you know what I'm saying, is this it?
867
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,000
is this all that
868
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,000
comes with life? is this all that comes
869
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,000
with support? is this all that comes with
870
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,000
but we haven't even seen
871
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,000
twice, half the world
872
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:55,000
is out there, half of it is out there
