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Yo Q what up?
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Man I'm keeping it real what up Duan?
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Welcome
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to not
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just music
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where we keep it real
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and honest
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always
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our
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new
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All
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whats going on beauty
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dya
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it's always
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hows northern
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right
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Nik
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So
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November
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to a complete halt and end.
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That dirty December, huh?
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And also, this is our Thanksgiving week.
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Today is Thanksgiving to be exact.
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And what are we cooking on?
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What do we eat today?
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What do we get today?
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Did we learn anything?
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Did we see family?
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Did we get to hold on to family?
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What did we get?
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And also, what are you thankful for again?
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What are you thankful for?
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People always should be thankful for something.
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So again, I'm gonna start off
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and tell what I'm thankful for today.
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Because again, this is our Thanksgiving special.
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You thankful for your fried turkey?
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Thankful for my fried.
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Oh, and again, I smoke.
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Your fried bird.
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Remember, I smoke mine.
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So.
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My smoked bird is definitely a go.
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My smoked chicken is definitely gonna be a go too
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because I'm gonna eat that as well on today.
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Be thankful for that, man.
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All of the good food.
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Of course, the biggest thing I'm so thankful for
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is my life, my health, and my strength.
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A lot of us don't get to have all of those.
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Some people dead right now.
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People that aren't strong right now.
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They don't have any strength right now.
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And health is very much, I'm coming around.
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I'm starting to feel a lot better.
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I know my skin is starting to heal now.
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I thought things starting to take place,
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it's a good thing, so I'm not complaining anymore.
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You know, I wasn't complaining in the first place,
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but I just feel a whole lot better.
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But yeah, family.
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Definitely, family, family, family.
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My family is everything.
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Everybody that's in my circle is pretty tight in it now.
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I think I've gotten rid of all of the kinks.
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There may be a few kinks left in there
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that ain't worked their way out.
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I'm still coming, so trust me.
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I'm gonna find those kinks and get those kinks out my life.
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Get rid of it.
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But yeah, for the most part, I'm thankful, man.
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Just again, I'm here.
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I get to do this drive-through traffic
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to come do this lovely situation.
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But again, I won't complain.
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I told you, let's pull up, man.
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Let's get it.
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I won't complain.
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I'm not gonna complain as much as, yeah, I'm tired.
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But again, it's Thanksgiving.
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I'm not gonna be tired for Thanksgiving.
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I'm thankful.
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I'm thankful for being tired.
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I did something good.
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I didn't do anything bad to be in this position
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to sit in front of these cameras.
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What you thankful for, bro?
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Man, I'm thankful for health.
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Man, I'm thankful for the success we've had this year,
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collectively and individually.
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I'm thankful for my family, my kids,
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rebuilding bad relationships too.
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Rebuilding a lot of things, fixing a lot of things,
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but then myself, my movie coming out
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and actually helping me, bro,
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like I know we talked about this before,
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but I feel like the movie kinda,
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it helped me with my life, man.
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I look at things differently
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because it's like I kinda let it out to the world.
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Like I just let it go, you feel me?
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And somebody, my past had said something.
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She was like, your story is not just your story.
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It's for somebody else.
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I feel so much better now that I put it out
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and it's coming out, you know what I'm saying?
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Yeah, I'm just thankful for everything, bro,
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and thankful for just being here,
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be alive, my family and everything.
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Yeah.
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Now, that you, the thankful parts
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of what you have gained in 2023,
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do they mean more, as you just explained,
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due to the unexpected things that have happened,
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that have taken place?
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Yeah.
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Those things hit differently.
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It's because one thing I always say is visual,
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visually, visualistic things that you give people
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hit differently than just a piece of audio.
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I've said that many times.
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Music, music has its way,
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but when you add video to it,
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it brings a certain level of attention to what's going on.
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Firstly, it's rare somebody wants to go as far
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as to put a movie out in the sense of,
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but not even just putting a movie out,
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to promote it and give it to people for free
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is a different thing too, because you want people to see it,
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even though the movie, that movie wasn't the whole
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entire movie, just to let y'all know.
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It was a part that was left out.
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Nobody even knew that.
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I did that purposely, because I wanted to be something exclusive.
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And you know what?
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And he was like, what more part ain't in there?
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Yeah, it's not in there.
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I was like, bro, you gon' be in there, bro.
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It's not in there.
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The exclusive part of it was that part.
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That really makes the movie.
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That's why I kind of left it out in a sense of,
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because I didn't want that to kind of be the focal point of,
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I just wanted people to see the highlight of the movie.
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Bro, that's what we needed to sell it.
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That's how we needed to sell it.
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So what's gon' be sold is not gon' be,
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if you came to the premiere, hey,
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but I want y'all to buy the movie.
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Please.
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Because it's something that y'all didn't see.
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See, you gotta, this is my thing now.
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And this is Thanksgiving Day.
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I'm giving away, giving away some.
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Thanksgiving giveaway.
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This is a day of Thanksgiving giveaway.
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To whomever sees this,
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even if it's on IG, YouTube, TikTok, whatever.
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Whoever sees this post first,
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I will personally send you a copy
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of the Quincy Murdoch movie on me.
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But it's only to the person who sees this email,
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and I'm gonna put it at the bottom of the screen.
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If you see the email, see the email,
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you just see it, just send it to this email
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that you saw this post and you heard me talk
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about Quincy Murdoch movie, if you're interested.
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Only if you're interested, if you wanna see it for free,
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I'll send it to you for free.
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That'll be a good addition to giving something away
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on Thanksgiving.
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I can say that's part of me giving away too.
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So thank y'all, both of us giving away.
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Both of us giving away.
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But again, don't, don't, don't.
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It's about giving.
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But don't take it as if I'm just pitching
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a situation to y'all to make y'all do something.
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No, it's not.
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It's really just a thing, I just wanna be giving.
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Just be a giving individual.
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Work hard.
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You want to give people something for your hard work.
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That's one thing that you did.
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You gave them, you wanted people to see it,
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they came to see it.
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Now, the outcome of it, again, family.
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Or friends.
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Or people that you don't know.
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Or people that you don't feel.
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Or people that you didn't feel.
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Or people that you didn't see or hadn't seen, right?
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Yeah.
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Have came, and some will come.
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Some will come around even as time goes on.
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Yeah.
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Going into the holiday.
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Is it a good thing for you?
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Or do you feel that some of the energy
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that's just coming from this will
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not break relationships apart, more so bring them together.
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But do you feel?
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The movie you talking about?
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Yeah, as far as the movie, when people see it.
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Yeah.
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The people, let's start with the people that saw it
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as of in the premiere, right?
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So, did you expect the reaction,
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or did you expect to see that many people show up
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for the premiere?
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I didn't expect that many people, I'm being honest.
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I didn't expect what I got.
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Bruh, I was nervous the whole time.
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Even though it was a true story,
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I was cringing though on them parts,
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like, aw man, what they gonna think about this, man.
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And I'm gonna be honest, a couple people walked out.
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I seen a couple families walk out due to,
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I just wanna put this out there,
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this is probably not appropriate film for kids to watch.
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I just wanna put that out there.
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This is actually a mature movie.
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Oh, y'all will see that tag on when it's time to bite.
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Yeah.
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It's a mature movie.
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I think that's one issue we had, we had kids in there.
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If you want your kids to watch it, explain it to them,
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that's you, you be a parent, but I'm saying,
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for me personally, it's not for kids to watch.
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PG-13, PG-13, y'all.
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So, that's considerably what it is, it's a PG-13.
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Keep this in mind too, again,
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those people that feel as if they're-
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You had a lot of churchy church people,
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some churchy church, but this is real life.
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Yeah, this ain't a church.
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And we don't into it.
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This ain't a church.
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Yeah, this ain't a church.
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This is real life.
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This ain't gospel driven.
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But you know what, but the ones, the churchy churches
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actually probably went through the same things,
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and forget that, but that ain't my call, but yeah.
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Go ahead, bro.
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No, no.
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Yeah, because they act like
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they ain't never experienced anything.
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But do you expect, do you not expect that to be the case?
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You know, like, I mean, the realness of what you put out,
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the realness of what you wanted people to see,
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the realness of how you wanted people to feel about it,
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that's what you did.
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That's the only thing that you could do.
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You're not the super churchy type individual as it is.
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Don't get me wrong to say that nobody is though.
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Nobody is super churchy.
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I didn't grow up in the church, man.
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But again, your life's story should be presented
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how you feel it's supposed to be.
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It's not supposed to be presented as if in how they saw.
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Oh, well, oh yeah.
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Well, he was nice around, well, he was different.
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He was like this way around me.
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He was supposed to be, this was supposed to be church.
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I thought we were going to church in this movie, though.
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It said that Quincy murdered out the movie.
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So again, if anybody took that the wrong way, that's sad.
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Quincy murdered out the movie, self-explanatory.
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Given the case of now, even as I said,
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these people see it, even those of the past, I think.
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Honestly, I don't think people would be that disturbed by it.
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And I'm gonna tell you why.
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One, you really didn't bash anybody.
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If anything, I bash myself a lot.
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You told a very honest truth.
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You weren't, you didn't sugarcoat it in any manner.
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And it should be respected as that.
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I mean, yeah, it's not gonna come out as pretty,
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but again, what situation is pretty?
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There's no situation that's pretty.
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And given that this is Thanksgiving Day,
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like if it's somebody that you sitting
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at the table with right now, you mad at them, upset,
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or whatever it is that it may be.
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And you know what, just for the case of that,
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that should make things a thousand times better
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because the person is right there with you right now.
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You actually have a chance to apologize.
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So look at them and apologize right now
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while we sitting here talking.
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Tell them sorry.
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Tell them, or forgive them.
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Put that spoon down right quick.
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Apologize, yeah.
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Apologize, you be the person to apologize
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because sometimes it's-
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I'm sorry.
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Sometimes we need to take a look at ourself.
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Even if the person that is,
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you found the person that did you wrong,
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think about it like this.
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Find out what you could've did in yourself
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to make them do you wrong.
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Bro, can I say something?
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Go ahead.
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Do you not know how much better life could be
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just by those simple words, I'm sorry?
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No, man, that's true.
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It could change so many things.
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Yeah.
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It might break down the worst thing.
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That might make the hardest person soft, man.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Man, I'm sorry too.
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Boom, there you go.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Bro, I'm sorry is a strong statement, man.
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You know what I'm saying?
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You're right.
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And a lot of people don't take it.
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Do it because they feel as if it makes them weak,
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but that's the good thing about it.
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It's supposed to make you,
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it's supposed to decrease you.
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That's what it's about, decreasing you
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and honoring the other person.
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There's nothing wrong with it
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because sometimes you do rub a person wrong
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and you didn't even notice that you did it
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until you sit back and take another look at it.
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Like, okay, you know what?
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I might've been wrong for doing that.
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I might've been wrong for saying that.
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And you know what?
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And the person that might be stubborn too,
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like you say sorry, you say sorry,
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that person might just come out, man.
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You know, I'm sorry too, man.
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I'm so sorry doing this and doing that.
342
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So your sorry might break them down to admit their wrong.
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You get what I'm saying?
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So look at it as like therapy, like on both ends.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Coming to an agreement.
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That's how I look at it now.
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Oh yeah.
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Saying I'm sorry.
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Yeah.
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So now, if nothing else too, y'all,
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even if it's family, friends or whatever,
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whoever you with, this is another thing
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to take advantage of too, again, as I say,
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while they're there, time.
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You know, this is the time of the year
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where family should be at the top of your list.
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Straight up.
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I mean, friends can be considered family as well.
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So don't take it as if, and I'm just saying
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your blood family.
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Somebody that's close to you that you consider family,
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that you can depend on or somebody that you can call on
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or you know, anything in that nature of
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considering them to be close to you.
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If you're sitting with them right now,
367
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and even if there's nothing wrong,
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again, talk about good things.
369
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Talk about the good times.
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Like, I've been trying to do that more often with people.
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Talk about the good things.
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Talk about the good times.
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Things that bring positive, influential things
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to both of you as a whole or even as a family.
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Let's do that.
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I mean, you might, some people might sit there and sing.
377
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You might have it be in the singing family.
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Sing some songs.
379
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Y'all might be some rappers.
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Rap.
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Y'all might be some rudders.
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Go for a run.
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Y'all might be, find that niche that everybody does
384
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that everybody could do together.
385
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Could be games.
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It could be whatever.
387
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Like, find those things to make bonds
388
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great during this time of the year.
389
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Gather some good energy because we don't get to be around
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family all the time.
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Gather that energy up.
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Bottle it up.
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Take it back to wherever you're going to.
394
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And tell those people and bring those people around.
395
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Those close ones that you didn't get to be around
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on Thanksgiving.
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Let them get some of that energy.
398
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Because the thing is, we don't flow enough in positivity
399
00:16:27,860 --> 00:16:28,760
as families.
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And I'm starting to see that more so now
401
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because we don't communicate.
402
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Right.
403
00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:37,500
It's a lack of communication within families.
404
00:16:37,500 --> 00:16:38,980
I need to do better.
405
00:16:38,980 --> 00:16:41,180
You know, I love my family.
406
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I need to do better.
407
00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:43,380
Can I say something?
408
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Sometimes family is just a word.
409
00:16:45,540 --> 00:16:47,300
Yeah, you're right.
410
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Family, real family is an action.
411
00:16:50,220 --> 00:16:52,100
Like, how you act with somebody.
412
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You know what I'm saying?
413
00:16:53,340 --> 00:16:56,260
Like, you know, I know some people that's close
414
00:16:56,260 --> 00:16:58,300
to strangers than their family.
415
00:16:58,300 --> 00:17:01,380
Our stranger be there before their family member will.
416
00:17:01,380 --> 00:17:02,220
You know what I'm saying?
417
00:17:02,220 --> 00:17:04,660
So, it's an action word.
418
00:17:04,660 --> 00:17:06,100
Like, love is an action word.
419
00:17:06,100 --> 00:17:07,300
You know what I'm saying?
420
00:17:07,300 --> 00:17:08,260
You gotta show it.
421
00:17:08,260 --> 00:17:09,300
Yeah.
422
00:17:09,300 --> 00:17:12,020
Just because we got the same blood, don't mean we family.
423
00:17:12,020 --> 00:17:13,380
Like, what are you showing?
424
00:17:13,380 --> 00:17:14,220
We family.
425
00:17:14,220 --> 00:17:15,040
Exactly.
426
00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:16,020
So, yeah.
427
00:17:16,020 --> 00:17:16,860
Exactly.
428
00:17:16,860 --> 00:17:17,980
And that's my thing.
429
00:17:17,980 --> 00:17:21,740
I take on, like you just said, like, that's why I said,
430
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family can be deeper than just those ones
431
00:17:24,860 --> 00:17:28,260
that have that blood, that blood, you know, that,
432
00:17:29,540 --> 00:17:31,780
we got the same blood, yeah, that makes us family.
433
00:17:31,780 --> 00:17:33,660
Yeah, sometimes it don't though.
434
00:17:33,660 --> 00:17:37,020
Because sometimes that blood can be overlooked.
435
00:17:37,020 --> 00:17:38,220
And we ain't down in family.
436
00:17:38,220 --> 00:17:39,740
We're not talking about family or nothing.
437
00:17:39,740 --> 00:17:42,020
We're just being real, you know, keeping it real.
438
00:17:42,020 --> 00:17:44,660
Like, I'ma be at a show the 25th
439
00:17:44,660 --> 00:17:48,180
with my cast and crew for this stage play in.
440
00:17:48,180 --> 00:17:50,840
Bruh, like, man, we already grew a bond.
441
00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:52,740
So, that's like family.
442
00:17:52,740 --> 00:17:54,860
It ain't my blood family, but it's like family.
443
00:17:54,860 --> 00:17:56,020
We all got each other.
444
00:17:56,020 --> 00:17:57,620
Like, we tired in practice.
445
00:17:57,620 --> 00:17:59,380
People like, man, hold your head up.
446
00:17:59,380 --> 00:18:01,300
I remember that first day I was tired, bruh.
447
00:18:01,300 --> 00:18:02,780
Like, man, I fell out.
448
00:18:03,700 --> 00:18:05,100
They give me a chair, bruh.
449
00:18:05,100 --> 00:18:06,620
They, bruh, keep your head up.
450
00:18:06,620 --> 00:18:08,620
I happen to bend over, keep your head up, man.
451
00:18:08,620 --> 00:18:09,460
You know what I'm saying?
452
00:18:09,460 --> 00:18:11,060
You a king, hold your head up.
453
00:18:11,060 --> 00:18:12,580
Like, that's love, bro.
454
00:18:12,580 --> 00:18:13,780
You know what I'm saying?
455
00:18:13,780 --> 00:18:16,380
So, family just ain't family.
456
00:18:16,380 --> 00:18:20,220
Like, we saying, like, you know, it can be strangers.
457
00:18:20,220 --> 00:18:22,060
People come in your life.
458
00:18:22,060 --> 00:18:23,780
We family, you know what I'm saying?
459
00:18:23,780 --> 00:18:27,700
Me and you, so it like, bruh, it's an action word, man.
460
00:18:27,700 --> 00:18:28,540
Mm-hmm.
461
00:18:29,500 --> 00:18:30,320
Yeah.
462
00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:35,320
Sometimes the work does present, you know, people who,
463
00:18:36,300 --> 00:18:37,900
it's not all jobs, y'all.
464
00:18:37,900 --> 00:18:38,860
It's not all jobs.
465
00:18:38,860 --> 00:18:40,580
It's not all things that we do
466
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where you gonna run into some people.
467
00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:43,980
Because sometimes those connections, even those people
468
00:18:43,980 --> 00:18:46,020
that work those jobs, you know, you can't be around
469
00:18:46,020 --> 00:18:46,860
certain people at your job.
470
00:18:46,860 --> 00:18:49,740
Some people, though, you can't be around at a job.
471
00:18:49,740 --> 00:18:54,300
But everybody, you can't be on that level of, okay,
472
00:18:54,300 --> 00:18:59,300
you know who's deeper than family when it's presented.
473
00:18:59,900 --> 00:19:02,380
A situation is going to come up.
474
00:19:02,380 --> 00:19:05,180
Those that really are cutting through the mustard
475
00:19:05,180 --> 00:19:07,180
to get who gonna do something for you,
476
00:19:07,180 --> 00:19:08,460
you gonna do something for them.
477
00:19:08,460 --> 00:19:10,300
You don't gotta ask them.
478
00:19:10,300 --> 00:19:13,140
You've done that for me plenty times.
479
00:19:13,140 --> 00:19:17,340
Taking me to the airport, to Nigeria, and picking me up.
480
00:19:17,340 --> 00:19:19,580
Bruh, you ain't have to do that, man.
481
00:19:19,580 --> 00:19:20,460
You know what I'm saying?
482
00:19:20,460 --> 00:19:21,540
You didn't have to do that.
483
00:19:21,540 --> 00:19:24,700
So anytime we have like spits and splats
484
00:19:24,700 --> 00:19:27,780
and stuff like that, that's where, it's a reminder.
485
00:19:27,780 --> 00:19:30,620
Like, man, what this man has done for me.
486
00:19:30,620 --> 00:19:31,460
You know what I'm saying?
487
00:19:31,460 --> 00:19:32,300
Some people don't really get that.
488
00:19:32,300 --> 00:19:34,620
So like, people don't, like, people need to really
489
00:19:34,620 --> 00:19:37,500
think about things like that when they fall out
490
00:19:37,500 --> 00:19:38,940
with somebody temporarily.
491
00:19:38,940 --> 00:19:39,780
Yeah.
492
00:19:39,780 --> 00:19:41,300
Like I said, think about the good times.
493
00:19:41,300 --> 00:19:42,140
Yes.
494
00:19:42,140 --> 00:19:43,140
Think about the good things.
495
00:19:43,140 --> 00:19:44,280
You know what I'm saying?
496
00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:48,780
Like what he did that was like changed my life.
497
00:19:48,780 --> 00:19:49,620
You know what I'm saying?
498
00:19:49,620 --> 00:19:50,820
Stuff like that.
499
00:19:50,820 --> 00:19:53,820
So like, that stuff should overweight all the little
500
00:19:53,820 --> 00:19:56,220
arguments and stuff like that, man.
501
00:19:56,220 --> 00:19:57,300
You forgive, man.
502
00:19:57,300 --> 00:20:00,740
Like all them good things that he did or she did,
503
00:20:00,740 --> 00:20:01,900
that's more important.
504
00:20:01,900 --> 00:20:02,740
You know what I'm saying?
505
00:20:02,740 --> 00:20:04,300
And see, that's what I love.
506
00:20:04,300 --> 00:20:05,140
Seriously.
507
00:20:05,140 --> 00:20:07,220
I love that type of energy now.
508
00:20:07,220 --> 00:20:11,780
Even with the case of like, I want people to think
509
00:20:11,780 --> 00:20:12,980
about this too.
510
00:20:12,980 --> 00:20:15,100
If you're sitting with your husband or your wife right now,
511
00:20:15,100 --> 00:20:17,460
your wife or your husband, however you,
512
00:20:17,460 --> 00:20:18,700
split it however you want.
513
00:20:19,900 --> 00:20:22,060
If you're sitting with them right now,
514
00:20:22,060 --> 00:20:26,620
and the obstacles, and I'm gonna tell you this,
515
00:20:26,620 --> 00:20:30,540
and this is, cause this is going to a deep conversation.
516
00:20:30,540 --> 00:20:35,540
And especially on a Thanksgiving table type of topic.
517
00:20:35,540 --> 00:20:37,940
You know, so think about this.
518
00:20:39,220 --> 00:20:40,860
And think about it, man.
519
00:20:40,860 --> 00:20:43,140
Shoot, I should at this around about two o'clock
520
00:20:43,140 --> 00:20:43,980
in the afternoon.
521
00:20:43,980 --> 00:20:45,140
I think I might do that.
522
00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:47,700
Being Thanksgiving.
523
00:20:47,700 --> 00:20:50,200
So y'all seeing this at an earlier time.
524
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,860
So again, so y'all can get this in with your family.
525
00:20:52,860 --> 00:20:55,740
So let me ask y'all this, those married couples,
526
00:20:56,700 --> 00:20:59,580
are you sitting there holding the grudge at the table?
527
00:20:59,580 --> 00:21:02,540
Cause I'm gonna, bro, you tell me if I'm wrong.
528
00:21:02,540 --> 00:21:07,540
Married couples are some of the hardest people
529
00:21:08,980 --> 00:21:13,980
on each other in the whole entire universe.
530
00:21:14,300 --> 00:21:15,140
Yes or no?
531
00:21:15,140 --> 00:21:15,960
Well I ain't never been married,
532
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:17,100
but just in a relationship.
533
00:21:17,100 --> 00:21:20,580
Looking at people that's married, right?
534
00:21:21,980 --> 00:21:26,220
Don't it seem if people, don't you see more people like,
535
00:21:26,220 --> 00:21:28,580
man, I ain't getting married because of that right there?
536
00:21:28,580 --> 00:21:29,420
Yeah, yeah.
537
00:21:29,420 --> 00:21:30,260
You hear that a lot, right?
538
00:21:30,260 --> 00:21:31,100
I was like that.
539
00:21:31,100 --> 00:21:32,300
I be like that.
540
00:21:32,300 --> 00:21:33,500
I be like that.
541
00:21:33,500 --> 00:21:36,500
Cause you know, like man, I feel like a lot of people
542
00:21:36,500 --> 00:21:39,620
are just good as friends, man.
543
00:21:39,620 --> 00:21:40,460
That's it.
544
00:21:40,460 --> 00:21:42,980
Some people just better off as friends, man.
545
00:21:42,980 --> 00:21:44,820
Some people ain't meant to be married.
546
00:21:48,660 --> 00:21:52,100
I just feel like, cause how can you love a person
547
00:21:52,100 --> 00:21:53,820
when you ain't married so much,
548
00:21:53,820 --> 00:21:57,300
and then when you get married, you can't stand that person.
549
00:21:57,300 --> 00:21:58,620
I never understand it.
550
00:21:58,620 --> 00:22:01,260
Like how do you fall out of love with somebody
551
00:22:01,260 --> 00:22:03,100
just cause when you get married,
552
00:22:03,100 --> 00:22:04,100
it pros and becomes stronger.
553
00:22:04,100 --> 00:22:05,140
That's what I thought.
554
00:22:05,140 --> 00:22:06,460
It's supposed to.
555
00:22:06,460 --> 00:22:09,500
So the love falls a little bit.
556
00:22:09,500 --> 00:22:10,340
And I think it's-
557
00:22:10,340 --> 00:22:11,260
You get tired of the person?
558
00:22:11,260 --> 00:22:13,380
I think, I'ma tell you what I think I've learned, man.
559
00:22:13,380 --> 00:22:15,060
Cause you married, man.
560
00:22:15,060 --> 00:22:18,140
Some people think that, this is what I think.
561
00:22:19,540 --> 00:22:21,340
If you learn how to be an individual
562
00:22:22,980 --> 00:22:27,980
and be a individual who understands life,
563
00:22:27,980 --> 00:22:32,980
meaning changes, you constantly going through changes
564
00:22:35,580 --> 00:22:37,180
by yourself.
565
00:22:37,180 --> 00:22:39,020
That's enough for as it is, man.
566
00:22:39,020 --> 00:22:39,860
Just think about it, bro.
567
00:22:39,860 --> 00:22:40,700
They add two, add another.
568
00:22:40,700 --> 00:22:41,540
Bro, people be like-
569
00:22:41,540 --> 00:22:43,420
Add another head, bro.
570
00:22:43,420 --> 00:22:46,100
They be like, people be like, okay.
571
00:22:46,100 --> 00:22:48,460
So thinking about it, if you couldn't handle
572
00:22:48,460 --> 00:22:49,300
what was going on-
573
00:22:49,300 --> 00:22:50,140
In your life.
574
00:22:50,140 --> 00:22:53,020
By yourself, how you-
575
00:22:53,020 --> 00:22:56,020
Hey, bingo, that's it.
576
00:22:56,020 --> 00:22:58,100
How you go add people to it.
577
00:22:58,100 --> 00:22:59,420
Even kids.
578
00:22:59,420 --> 00:23:04,300
Like how, people be, how do you go have babies
579
00:23:04,300 --> 00:23:07,260
and you can't even take care of your own self?
580
00:23:07,260 --> 00:23:08,100
Yeah.
581
00:23:08,100 --> 00:23:09,860
How do you do that?
582
00:23:09,860 --> 00:23:10,700
Right.
583
00:23:10,700 --> 00:23:11,940
So again-
584
00:23:11,940 --> 00:23:14,820
It's more important to just bring a baby on the earth, man.
585
00:23:14,820 --> 00:23:17,660
Shit, I'll say, that's my baby mama, baby daddy.
586
00:23:17,660 --> 00:23:18,500
You know what I'm saying?
587
00:23:18,500 --> 00:23:19,940
Some people can't handle it.
588
00:23:19,940 --> 00:23:21,460
It's not there.
589
00:23:21,460 --> 00:23:23,140
This is not a thing for everybody.
590
00:23:23,140 --> 00:23:24,220
No, you're right.
591
00:23:24,220 --> 00:23:25,460
You said that.
592
00:23:25,460 --> 00:23:26,660
Marriage ain't for everybody.
593
00:23:26,660 --> 00:23:27,580
Some people are like, yeah.
594
00:23:27,580 --> 00:23:29,460
You said, bet off his friends.
595
00:23:30,580 --> 00:23:35,580
A task at hand for me is why do people make it seem
596
00:23:36,940 --> 00:23:40,500
as if in the married people, those that aren't married
597
00:23:40,500 --> 00:23:45,540
try to convince you why you shouldn't be married
598
00:23:45,540 --> 00:23:47,020
when something goes on?
599
00:23:47,020 --> 00:23:47,860
Can I say something?
600
00:23:47,860 --> 00:23:48,700
Go ahead.
601
00:23:48,700 --> 00:23:51,220
But see the thing, okay, I want your opinion.
602
00:23:51,220 --> 00:23:53,500
So what would you say to somebody,
603
00:23:53,500 --> 00:23:54,860
I'm not gonna say no names,
604
00:23:54,860 --> 00:23:58,100
but if they were together in a serious relationship
605
00:24:01,100 --> 00:24:04,260
and one of the people cheated and did this and did that
606
00:24:04,260 --> 00:24:07,100
and they broke up, but the person is like,
607
00:24:07,100 --> 00:24:08,300
oh, that's my best friend.
608
00:24:08,300 --> 00:24:10,540
I think we just best friends.
609
00:24:13,140 --> 00:24:15,340
Would you hurt your best friend?
610
00:24:16,220 --> 00:24:17,900
You get what I'm saying?
611
00:24:17,900 --> 00:24:20,060
We bet off his friend, but you didn't know this
612
00:24:20,060 --> 00:24:21,340
before we got this deep.
613
00:24:21,340 --> 00:24:22,340
You know what I'm saying?
614
00:24:22,340 --> 00:24:23,620
We bet off his friends.
615
00:24:23,620 --> 00:24:25,660
This is the deep, that's the deep question.
616
00:24:25,660 --> 00:24:27,140
Yeah, I want your opinion on that.
617
00:24:27,140 --> 00:24:29,940
So would you accept that or you would just be like,
618
00:24:29,940 --> 00:24:31,660
nah, because if you was my best friend,
619
00:24:31,660 --> 00:24:33,700
why would you do this?
620
00:24:33,700 --> 00:24:35,900
I would probably, I'm gonna tell you, I'm a Scorpio,
621
00:24:35,900 --> 00:24:38,620
so I would be like, man, no.
622
00:24:38,620 --> 00:24:39,460
You know what I'm saying?
623
00:24:39,460 --> 00:24:41,140
You don't love me, you done did this,
624
00:24:41,140 --> 00:24:42,180
stab me in my back.
625
00:24:42,180 --> 00:24:44,220
Like, you're not my friend.
626
00:24:44,220 --> 00:24:45,700
Friends don't do that.
627
00:24:45,700 --> 00:24:49,620
So how you gonna say, okay, we're in a relationship,
628
00:24:49,620 --> 00:24:52,380
we're married, we boyfriend, girlfriend.
629
00:24:52,380 --> 00:24:53,820
Oh, I screwed up.
630
00:24:53,820 --> 00:24:55,620
Okay, let's just be friends,
631
00:24:55,620 --> 00:24:57,260
because I think we bet off as friends.
632
00:24:57,260 --> 00:24:59,260
We might just work better as friends.
633
00:24:59,260 --> 00:25:01,060
So why did you have to do all that
634
00:25:01,060 --> 00:25:03,100
for you to get to that level?
635
00:25:03,100 --> 00:25:04,940
Why couldn't you just break it all
636
00:25:04,940 --> 00:25:07,300
before you cheated on me, did this and that?
637
00:25:07,300 --> 00:25:09,140
Yeah, that's what a real friend would do.
638
00:25:09,140 --> 00:25:09,980
Go ahead.
639
00:25:15,460 --> 00:25:18,140
The angle, let's take it like this, right?
640
00:25:18,140 --> 00:25:19,420
Like I said, right?
641
00:25:19,420 --> 00:25:24,420
Personally, and just be honest with yourself too, right?
642
00:25:26,820 --> 00:25:30,260
I'm giving you an example of what I would call this, right?
643
00:25:32,860 --> 00:25:34,940
First off, will you forgive yourself?
644
00:25:37,460 --> 00:25:40,420
Now, let's think about this.
645
00:25:40,420 --> 00:25:43,540
People are quick to judge somebody
646
00:25:43,540 --> 00:25:47,220
for their own doing to you, or of you, right?
647
00:25:47,220 --> 00:25:48,980
So if I get mad at somebody,
648
00:25:48,980 --> 00:25:50,260
somebody do me wrong, right?
649
00:25:50,260 --> 00:25:51,340
They cheat on me, right?
650
00:25:52,220 --> 00:25:55,220
They cheat on me in the sense of,
651
00:25:55,220 --> 00:25:57,740
they cheated on me with a mentality of something,
652
00:25:57,740 --> 00:26:01,140
like I said, that I did, right?
653
00:26:01,140 --> 00:26:04,500
And sometimes it may not even be a thing of a mentality
654
00:26:04,500 --> 00:26:05,340
of something that I did,
655
00:26:05,340 --> 00:26:08,540
it could be something of their mentality that they did, right?
656
00:26:09,900 --> 00:26:11,460
So I look at it like this.
657
00:26:13,500 --> 00:26:16,540
I've messed up so many times on my own, right?
658
00:26:16,540 --> 00:26:20,580
Some of them times to say,
659
00:26:20,580 --> 00:26:25,140
did I really love myself, my own self, right?
660
00:26:27,380 --> 00:26:29,340
You know, somebody like, you know,
661
00:26:29,340 --> 00:26:32,820
that time you get yourself into a bad state
662
00:26:32,820 --> 00:26:34,460
and you lose everything.
663
00:26:36,100 --> 00:26:38,660
You didn't just end up just losing everything at one time.
664
00:26:38,660 --> 00:26:40,220
It took some time to get there.
665
00:26:40,220 --> 00:26:41,900
How you have been to that point?
666
00:26:41,900 --> 00:26:43,020
To what, say what?
667
00:26:43,020 --> 00:26:46,180
Like where you lost some things, almost lost everything.
668
00:26:46,180 --> 00:26:48,500
Yeah, been close.
669
00:26:48,500 --> 00:26:51,100
And I'm gonna say it like this.
670
00:26:51,100 --> 00:26:54,060
The hardest thing to do that a lot of people
671
00:26:54,060 --> 00:26:55,860
don't want to do is forgive.
672
00:26:56,820 --> 00:26:59,780
And I'm gonna tell you what can happen though
673
00:26:59,780 --> 00:27:00,980
when you forgive.
674
00:27:00,980 --> 00:27:03,780
And this is something, and I'm not even speaking of saying
675
00:27:03,780 --> 00:27:07,580
this has to be for everybody in that relationship mentality.
676
00:27:07,580 --> 00:27:12,300
Yeah, some people can say and get away from a situation
677
00:27:12,300 --> 00:27:14,220
of saying, well, if you're gonna cheat on me,
678
00:27:14,220 --> 00:27:16,060
you might as well just leave me alone, right?
679
00:27:16,060 --> 00:27:19,620
But just because, and I'm gonna be honest with you,
680
00:27:20,620 --> 00:27:23,500
just because somebody cheats on you doesn't mean that
681
00:27:23,500 --> 00:27:25,660
per se that they don't love you.
682
00:27:25,660 --> 00:27:27,980
That's not a thing of saying that they don't love you.
683
00:27:27,980 --> 00:27:28,900
I'm gonna tell you why.
684
00:27:28,900 --> 00:27:31,300
I don't know, so you, oh, oh, oh.
685
00:27:31,300 --> 00:27:33,460
So it's levels to this though.
686
00:27:33,460 --> 00:27:34,540
It's levels. It's levels.
687
00:27:34,540 --> 00:27:37,020
It's levels. Okay, so like if you cheating,
688
00:27:37,020 --> 00:27:41,420
if you cheating, we gonna say to put this in a PG way,
689
00:27:41,420 --> 00:27:45,180
if you cheat and you have unprotected sex with somebody
690
00:27:45,180 --> 00:27:47,300
and get pregnant.
691
00:27:49,460 --> 00:27:50,700
That ain't love to me, bruh.
692
00:27:50,700 --> 00:27:51,940
Like that ain't love to me.
693
00:27:51,940 --> 00:27:53,020
That's not love to me. Okay, I say this.
694
00:27:53,020 --> 00:27:54,340
You know what I'm saying? I say this.
695
00:27:54,340 --> 00:27:56,980
That's not love to me. Okay, I say this.
696
00:27:56,980 --> 00:27:58,740
Cause it's levels. It's levels.
697
00:27:58,740 --> 00:28:00,300
But remember love hurts.
698
00:28:01,940 --> 00:28:04,100
So that's why a lot of people scared to get married too.
699
00:28:04,100 --> 00:28:06,140
That's the part. A lot of people scared to get married too.
700
00:28:06,140 --> 00:28:08,100
You gonna have to be, you gonna have to be.
701
00:28:08,100 --> 00:28:09,580
A lot of people scared to get married too.
702
00:28:09,580 --> 00:28:12,620
That's why, because people love breaks you down.
703
00:28:12,620 --> 00:28:17,500
It takes a part of you that it's supposed to be that way.
704
00:28:17,500 --> 00:28:21,260
People don't want, see people so afraid of getting hurt.
705
00:28:21,260 --> 00:28:22,100
Me?
706
00:28:22,980 --> 00:28:26,180
But see, this is what affects you.
707
00:28:27,100 --> 00:28:30,700
What affects you is where either you're gonna be hurt
708
00:28:30,700 --> 00:28:32,940
via love or you gonna hurt yourself.
709
00:28:32,940 --> 00:28:34,860
I'm gonna tell you why.
710
00:28:34,860 --> 00:28:36,180
One thing is this.
711
00:28:37,820 --> 00:28:39,700
Even if you're not in a relationship,
712
00:28:39,700 --> 00:28:42,300
you're gonna go through battles and struggles on your own.
713
00:28:42,300 --> 00:28:45,620
Hear what I just say. On your own.
714
00:28:47,300 --> 00:28:50,740
It's not up to you and the other person,
715
00:28:50,740 --> 00:28:52,540
well it's up to you and the other person
716
00:28:52,540 --> 00:28:54,100
to make the decisions to say that,
717
00:28:54,100 --> 00:28:55,460
look, we gonna be together.
718
00:28:56,460 --> 00:28:58,940
But just remember when you gonna be with them,
719
00:28:58,940 --> 00:29:01,260
when you're going to be serious by them
720
00:29:01,260 --> 00:29:03,300
and make that commitment to them,
721
00:29:03,300 --> 00:29:05,820
remember they are going to do something
722
00:29:05,820 --> 00:29:08,020
that's going to be heinous.
723
00:29:08,020 --> 00:29:10,300
They're gonna do something. They're gonna mess up.
724
00:29:10,300 --> 00:29:14,380
They're gonna do something to you or around you
725
00:29:14,380 --> 00:29:17,700
that you're going to feel that it was totally wrong.
726
00:29:17,700 --> 00:29:19,700
But more than one time though, the same thing.
727
00:29:19,700 --> 00:29:20,540
Yes.
728
00:29:20,540 --> 00:29:21,540
So that's a mistake.
729
00:29:21,540 --> 00:29:23,420
A mistake, I'm gonna be honest with you.
730
00:29:23,420 --> 00:29:25,260
And this is one thing I always say.
731
00:29:25,260 --> 00:29:29,380
People always go to the fact of it's something sexual
732
00:29:30,940 --> 00:29:33,500
that makes it thing of cheat.
733
00:29:33,500 --> 00:29:36,060
Cheating is way deeper than sexual.
734
00:29:36,060 --> 00:29:38,100
Let's be real.
735
00:29:38,100 --> 00:29:40,340
Sometimes people go cheat with somebody
736
00:29:40,340 --> 00:29:41,820
that they had no intentions of loving,
737
00:29:41,820 --> 00:29:43,700
they'll never love, they'll never especially,
738
00:29:43,700 --> 00:29:45,100
probably not even see them again.
739
00:29:45,100 --> 00:29:46,580
And that's dangerous, bro.
740
00:29:46,580 --> 00:29:48,300
So hear what I'm saying.
741
00:29:48,300 --> 00:29:49,540
Hear what I'm saying.
742
00:29:49,540 --> 00:29:54,260
The reason being things get that way is because of changes.
743
00:29:54,260 --> 00:29:57,060
People are scared of the constant changes
744
00:29:57,060 --> 00:30:00,020
that a relationship is going to take them through.
745
00:30:00,020 --> 00:30:04,020
If that is the case, yeah, stay away from marriage.
746
00:30:04,020 --> 00:30:07,020
Don't go into a marriage if that's the first thing
747
00:30:07,020 --> 00:30:10,100
that's on your mind or that is on your mind,
748
00:30:10,100 --> 00:30:12,180
is a constant thing on your mind.
749
00:30:12,180 --> 00:30:13,340
If you go into a marriage,
750
00:30:13,340 --> 00:30:16,820
go into a marriage expecting changes.
751
00:30:16,820 --> 00:30:19,460
Because the case of, I mean, I've seen people,
752
00:30:19,460 --> 00:30:20,980
I've seen some of the best couples
753
00:30:20,980 --> 00:30:23,780
and the best relationships go through the hardest things
754
00:30:24,740 --> 00:30:26,220
and make it out.
755
00:30:26,220 --> 00:30:29,380
The reason being because they built their condition.
756
00:30:29,380 --> 00:30:32,020
They've gone through so much together,
757
00:30:32,020 --> 00:30:33,220
they know how to get through things together.
758
00:30:33,220 --> 00:30:35,220
That's what I was gonna, that was my next point.
759
00:30:35,220 --> 00:30:36,060
Yeah.
760
00:30:36,060 --> 00:30:37,900
I feel like now in my life,
761
00:30:37,900 --> 00:30:41,420
if I can get into a relationship like that
762
00:30:41,420 --> 00:30:44,180
and take the hurt more a little bit,
763
00:30:44,180 --> 00:30:45,460
because I've been there.
764
00:30:45,460 --> 00:30:46,940
This movie come out,
765
00:30:46,940 --> 00:30:48,820
Quentin Murdoch the movie, man, you gonna see,
766
00:30:48,820 --> 00:30:50,500
I've been there, I done went through it,
767
00:30:50,500 --> 00:30:51,980
you know what I'm saying, with these girls.
768
00:30:51,980 --> 00:30:55,300
So I know now how it feels.
769
00:30:55,300 --> 00:30:56,980
So it's like, it's gonna hurt,
770
00:30:56,980 --> 00:30:58,980
but you can't get me no worse than that.
771
00:30:58,980 --> 00:30:59,820
That was, you know what I'm saying?
772
00:30:59,820 --> 00:31:01,020
Again, that's what you just.
773
00:31:01,020 --> 00:31:03,820
So yeah, you like experiences.
774
00:31:03,820 --> 00:31:07,220
It builds character and power within.
775
00:31:07,220 --> 00:31:08,060
So yeah.
776
00:31:08,060 --> 00:31:10,740
And see, that's the part that you think about
777
00:31:10,740 --> 00:31:12,540
with the relationship right there.
778
00:31:12,540 --> 00:31:13,500
With a marriage.
779
00:31:13,500 --> 00:31:17,260
But like, was your first hurt before you got married though?
780
00:31:17,260 --> 00:31:18,700
Like did you experience the worst hurt?
781
00:31:18,700 --> 00:31:21,100
That's how you can deal with things
782
00:31:21,100 --> 00:31:22,300
that come in your marriage now?
783
00:31:22,300 --> 00:31:24,900
Like did you experience something bad
784
00:31:24,900 --> 00:31:27,500
that crushed you from a girl you was dating?
785
00:31:27,500 --> 00:31:29,660
Not, yes, but no.
786
00:31:29,660 --> 00:31:30,500
Okay.
787
00:31:30,500 --> 00:31:33,940
The most hurtful moments,
788
00:31:33,940 --> 00:31:36,380
and I'm gonna tell you how this becomes this.
789
00:31:36,380 --> 00:31:40,380
The most hurtful moments were when I was married.
790
00:31:40,380 --> 00:31:41,220
Okay.
791
00:31:41,220 --> 00:31:44,380
The reason being, they're my most hurtful moments
792
00:31:44,380 --> 00:31:49,380
is because the case of that's where my heart is.
793
00:31:49,420 --> 00:31:50,260
Yeah.
794
00:31:50,260 --> 00:31:52,420
So for the case of being that is there,
795
00:31:52,420 --> 00:31:53,700
that's what it's going to feel like.
796
00:31:53,700 --> 00:31:56,420
But this is what I've learned and gained
797
00:31:56,420 --> 00:32:01,180
from being that, it's the case of,
798
00:32:03,140 --> 00:32:06,780
realistically, the person that you're in the relationship
799
00:32:06,780 --> 00:32:11,060
with, if they never ever tell you truths,
800
00:32:11,060 --> 00:32:13,980
if they never ever present truths,
801
00:32:13,980 --> 00:32:15,220
if they're never open,
802
00:32:15,220 --> 00:32:18,580
if they're never up front about things,
803
00:32:18,580 --> 00:32:20,780
even if it's the case that they messed up, right?
804
00:32:20,780 --> 00:32:23,380
Even if somebody messes up and they're strong enough
805
00:32:23,380 --> 00:32:25,900
to come talk to you and be in your face
806
00:32:25,900 --> 00:32:29,140
and tell you, oh, hey, I messed up.
807
00:32:29,140 --> 00:32:30,740
I did this totally wrong.
808
00:32:32,100 --> 00:32:33,340
I didn't mean to do this.
809
00:32:33,340 --> 00:32:35,860
And this is what I've learned too.
810
00:32:35,860 --> 00:32:39,940
You have to learn to how to accept a mistake.
811
00:32:39,940 --> 00:32:42,060
That's the hardest thing to do.
812
00:32:42,060 --> 00:32:45,380
The reason being, the reasons I say this is because,
813
00:32:46,460 --> 00:32:48,420
look, it don't have to be just like I said,
814
00:32:48,420 --> 00:32:50,900
it doesn't have to just be something financial.
815
00:32:50,900 --> 00:32:52,300
I mean, sexual.
816
00:32:52,300 --> 00:32:54,180
It could be something financial.
817
00:32:54,180 --> 00:32:57,700
It could be something, they left the garage door open,
818
00:32:57,700 --> 00:33:01,300
somebody came in and stole all the stuff out the cars.
819
00:33:01,300 --> 00:33:05,380
They left the sprinkler on in the backyard all night long,
820
00:33:05,380 --> 00:33:07,660
and now the backyard is flooded.
821
00:33:07,660 --> 00:33:09,700
So that just channels them to just.
822
00:33:09,700 --> 00:33:11,820
They could have broke their leg.
823
00:33:11,820 --> 00:33:13,860
Y'all could have, she could have broke her leg
824
00:33:13,860 --> 00:33:15,580
going down the steps.
825
00:33:15,580 --> 00:33:19,180
And the case of, you left your shoe
826
00:33:19,180 --> 00:33:21,140
sitting right there on the edge of the step,
827
00:33:21,140 --> 00:33:23,140
and she stripped over your shoe going down.
828
00:33:23,140 --> 00:33:25,380
This is the stuff that you gotta think about
829
00:33:25,380 --> 00:33:27,740
that you're going to go through something
830
00:33:27,740 --> 00:33:31,380
in your relationship that is going to present
831
00:33:31,380 --> 00:33:35,460
whether that person with you is worthy or not.
832
00:33:35,460 --> 00:33:37,500
That's what I'm trying to get to.
833
00:33:37,500 --> 00:33:39,780
Somebody's worthiness is going to show.
834
00:33:39,780 --> 00:33:42,540
It does, I'm telling you just from experience.
835
00:33:42,540 --> 00:33:43,900
This deep, man.
836
00:33:43,900 --> 00:33:45,540
Like, I'm scared of.
837
00:33:45,540 --> 00:33:48,580
But I told you, a real one is going to stick around.
838
00:33:48,580 --> 00:33:51,100
You don't have to ask a real one to stick around.
839
00:33:51,100 --> 00:33:52,980
A real one is gonna stick around on their own.
840
00:33:52,980 --> 00:33:54,260
They ain't gonna leave you hanging.
841
00:33:54,260 --> 00:33:55,980
They ain't gonna leave you high and dry.
842
00:33:55,980 --> 00:33:58,140
And this is the part I've realized.
843
00:33:59,140 --> 00:34:02,660
Some of the people that I've felt
844
00:34:02,660 --> 00:34:04,660
were my greatest people in my life
845
00:34:04,660 --> 00:34:06,740
aren't in my life no more.
846
00:34:06,740 --> 00:34:07,580
That's deep.
847
00:34:07,580 --> 00:34:09,940
And that's the case of.
848
00:34:09,940 --> 00:34:12,540
And with that, I've learned, like I told you,
849
00:34:12,540 --> 00:34:15,100
if somebody wants to be there, they gonna be there.
850
00:34:15,100 --> 00:34:17,540
You don't gotta, bro, you do not have to ask.
851
00:34:17,540 --> 00:34:20,020
I can look at my exes, some of my exes with they
852
00:34:20,020 --> 00:34:21,500
and be happy for them.
853
00:34:21,500 --> 00:34:22,940
That's all you can do.
854
00:34:22,940 --> 00:34:24,060
I'm happy for them.
855
00:34:24,060 --> 00:34:25,220
Cause I'm happy.
856
00:34:25,220 --> 00:34:26,620
You know, we had our time.
857
00:34:26,620 --> 00:34:27,940
We had our time.
858
00:34:27,940 --> 00:34:30,820
We ain't good, good, but we still good.
859
00:34:30,820 --> 00:34:32,620
Yeah, that's it.
860
00:34:32,620 --> 00:34:33,980
That's that song right there.
861
00:34:33,980 --> 00:34:35,820
It's a vibe.
862
00:34:35,820 --> 00:34:37,580
Bro, that's a hit right there.
863
00:34:37,580 --> 00:34:38,420
It's a vibe.
864
00:34:38,420 --> 00:34:39,380
Are you surprised?
865
00:34:39,380 --> 00:34:42,540
It's a vibe that people want to be with you, man.
866
00:34:42,540 --> 00:34:44,780
If your vibe is so dope,
867
00:34:44,780 --> 00:34:46,300
you will have somebody on your arm.
868
00:34:46,300 --> 00:34:49,300
I don't care if the situation, how good or how bad things go.
869
00:34:49,300 --> 00:34:51,020
Again, ain't none of the.
870
00:34:51,020 --> 00:34:54,940
The problem is, is nobody business what goes on in the bag.
871
00:34:54,940 --> 00:34:56,060
Keep people out your business.
872
00:34:56,060 --> 00:34:57,860
You don't gotta worry about that with your relationship.
873
00:34:57,860 --> 00:34:58,700
That's the problem.
874
00:34:58,700 --> 00:35:00,420
Too many people got too many people going on
875
00:35:00,420 --> 00:35:01,260
in their relationship.
876
00:35:01,260 --> 00:35:02,660
And that's what makes things hard
877
00:35:02,660 --> 00:35:04,380
to make things be a better relationship.
878
00:35:04,380 --> 00:35:06,820
So now let's bring this to a close.
879
00:35:06,820 --> 00:35:07,660
Cause it's Thanksgiving.
880
00:35:07,660 --> 00:35:09,020
I want y'all to get out of here
881
00:35:09,020 --> 00:35:10,300
and go enjoy y'all families.
882
00:35:10,300 --> 00:35:12,580
You gotta watch some games and stuff and eat.
883
00:35:12,580 --> 00:35:15,580
Take this with you as you go.
884
00:35:15,580 --> 00:35:19,420
And this Thanksgiving 2023,
885
00:35:19,420 --> 00:35:23,500
be a blessing to yourself first.
886
00:35:23,500 --> 00:35:24,620
Like I just told Q,
887
00:35:25,740 --> 00:35:29,500
how can you be a great person
888
00:35:29,500 --> 00:35:31,260
if you're not being a great person?
889
00:35:31,260 --> 00:35:32,740
And it starts with yourself.
890
00:35:32,740 --> 00:35:36,100
Be a great person for your own self, firstly.
891
00:35:36,100 --> 00:35:38,140
Take care of yourself, manage you,
892
00:35:38,140 --> 00:35:39,220
learn how to manage you
893
00:35:39,220 --> 00:35:41,620
before you start adding extra things to your life.
894
00:35:41,620 --> 00:35:45,740
Like love, people, kids, animals,
895
00:35:45,740 --> 00:35:47,820
extra stuff that you ain't got no business adding to your life.
896
00:35:47,820 --> 00:35:49,340
Don't do all that stuff.
897
00:35:49,340 --> 00:35:50,900
Manage what you can.
898
00:35:50,900 --> 00:35:55,020
Learn to manage what you have is an increment, small.
899
00:35:55,020 --> 00:35:57,180
Think small, don't think so big.
900
00:35:57,180 --> 00:35:59,060
Everybody's trying to go to the moon
901
00:35:59,060 --> 00:36:01,340
and they don't have moon money.
902
00:36:02,220 --> 00:36:04,020
Why go to the moon and you ain't got moon money?
903
00:36:04,020 --> 00:36:05,780
Same thing with the situation with a marriage.
904
00:36:05,780 --> 00:36:07,100
Why get into a marriage
905
00:36:07,100 --> 00:36:08,620
and you're not financially together?
906
00:36:08,620 --> 00:36:10,340
Bro, beat them moments, bro.
907
00:36:10,340 --> 00:36:11,180
Why get into marriage
908
00:36:11,180 --> 00:36:12,420
and you're not financially together?
909
00:36:12,420 --> 00:36:14,140
If you know finances is your problem,
910
00:36:14,140 --> 00:36:16,100
do not get into a marriage.
911
00:36:16,100 --> 00:36:17,780
Don't get into a relationship period.
912
00:36:17,780 --> 00:36:18,860
Finances are your problem.
913
00:36:18,860 --> 00:36:20,900
Don't get into a relationship.
914
00:36:20,900 --> 00:36:24,780
If you can't, if you find somebody y'all on the same level,
915
00:36:24,780 --> 00:36:26,500
y'all wanna come up together, do that.
916
00:36:26,500 --> 00:36:27,340
That's hard though.
917
00:36:27,340 --> 00:36:28,180
It's hard.
918
00:36:28,180 --> 00:36:30,780
What if you're like, damn, I want this girl right now.
919
00:36:30,780 --> 00:36:32,100
Hey, you know what I'm saying?
920
00:36:32,100 --> 00:36:33,820
Some people got that feeling.
921
00:36:33,820 --> 00:36:36,780
I know I'm broke, but I need this girl right now.
922
00:36:36,780 --> 00:36:37,620
Some people got that feeling.
923
00:36:37,620 --> 00:36:39,700
Because if I don't get her, somebody else gonna get her.
924
00:36:39,700 --> 00:36:41,020
Some people got that feeling.
925
00:36:41,020 --> 00:36:42,300
And if you do,
926
00:36:42,300 --> 00:36:44,380
just make sure that y'all on the same level.
927
00:36:44,380 --> 00:36:46,860
If y'all on the same level, things can work.
928
00:36:46,860 --> 00:36:50,780
But if you feel like your time and your energy
929
00:36:50,780 --> 00:36:52,300
is just for this one moment,
930
00:36:52,300 --> 00:36:54,340
make sure you let that person know, look,
931
00:36:54,340 --> 00:36:55,620
I just want you for this moment.
932
00:36:55,620 --> 00:36:57,140
I don't want you for a long time.
933
00:36:57,140 --> 00:36:57,980
Just for this moment.
934
00:36:57,980 --> 00:36:58,820
That's keeping it real.
935
00:36:58,820 --> 00:36:59,660
That's what.
936
00:36:59,660 --> 00:37:00,500
Yeah, that's for the moment.
937
00:37:00,500 --> 00:37:01,660
Make sure they know that.
938
00:37:01,660 --> 00:37:03,580
Again, there's another level of truth
939
00:37:03,580 --> 00:37:06,660
in being truthful to yourself and to somebody else.
940
00:37:06,660 --> 00:37:07,500
Tell them the truth.
941
00:37:07,500 --> 00:37:08,340
Yeah.
942
00:37:08,340 --> 00:37:09,160
Be honest.
943
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,060
I don't want you before today, baby.
944
00:37:11,060 --> 00:37:11,980
That's all.
945
00:37:11,980 --> 00:37:13,180
I just want you today.
946
00:37:13,180 --> 00:37:14,740
I don't want you no more after today.
947
00:37:14,740 --> 00:37:15,580
That's it.
948
00:37:15,580 --> 00:37:16,420
That's being honest.
949
00:37:16,420 --> 00:37:18,180
We ain't good good, but we still good.
950
00:37:18,180 --> 00:37:19,020
Yeah.
951
00:37:19,020 --> 00:37:20,580
Yeah.
952
00:37:20,580 --> 00:37:23,900
But again, y'all enjoy y'all Thanksgiving.
953
00:37:23,900 --> 00:37:24,740
Save me a plate.
954
00:37:24,740 --> 00:37:25,580
Enjoy your family.
955
00:37:25,580 --> 00:37:26,460
Save me a plate.
956
00:37:26,460 --> 00:37:28,820
Eat good, continue to love on your family.
957
00:37:28,820 --> 00:37:29,660
Yessir.
958
00:37:29,660 --> 00:37:32,740
To the end of eternity.
959
00:37:32,740 --> 00:37:34,100
Just continue to grow from here.
960
00:37:34,100 --> 00:37:35,460
Like I said, man,
961
00:37:35,460 --> 00:37:36,920
fix what's wrong.
962
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:37,760
Fix it now.
963
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:38,900
Communicate it, get it out.
964
00:37:39,780 --> 00:37:40,820
And if nothing else,
965
00:37:42,380 --> 00:37:43,820
we're here for y'all.
966
00:37:43,820 --> 00:37:45,860
We'll listen.
967
00:37:45,860 --> 00:37:47,940
Hit us up under this video.
968
00:37:47,940 --> 00:37:50,980
Messages, something, email us again.
969
00:37:50,980 --> 00:37:52,660
I'm giving away a movie.
970
00:37:52,660 --> 00:37:54,260
If you ain't paid attention,
971
00:37:54,260 --> 00:37:59,060
here's the link again to my email, our email.
972
00:37:59,060 --> 00:38:00,900
I'm gonna put some contacts down here.
973
00:38:00,900 --> 00:38:03,700
My email and Not Just Music Podcast email.
974
00:38:03,700 --> 00:38:05,900
Whoever hits one of these emails first,
975
00:38:05,900 --> 00:38:07,320
I'm gonna give y'all that movie.
976
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,060
Access to it, free access to it.
977
00:38:09,060 --> 00:38:10,760
So again, we love y'all.
978
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:11,860
Happy Thanksgiving.
979
00:38:11,860 --> 00:38:12,680
Peace.
980
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:17,680
See y'all next time.
