Look The Part - Take Account ft Q - Just My Advice

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Yo Q what up?

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Man I'm keeping it real what up the what?

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Welcome

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to not

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just music

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where we keep it real

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and honest

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always

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baby

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baby

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baby

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baby

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what's good, what's good people?

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It's Quincy Murdoch from the not just music podcast

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back at you

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with another one where we keep it real

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and honest

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always

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Today I want to talk about

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accountability

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accountability is a big word

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in society

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in everybody's life. I want to speak to my black people though, you know,

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because I'm African-American, I'm a black man. I feel like what is lacking in our

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community is being accountable for when we're wrong. And I think what's

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overriding, what's taking over in society, in the world, in the black community, in

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other communities as well, is pointing the finger, blaming. We're quick to blame

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everybody and everything on something else or somebody but ourselves. So as

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you get older you realize like is it something that I could have did

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differently? Is it something that I could have said differently that would have

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changed the outcome of, you know, that situation? You know, you grow and you

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should mature, you should learn. One thing I realized is I seen a post today

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and that's why I jumped up to do this but I seen a post today where a lady

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said it's a shame that women and men have to be half-naked or they feel like

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they have to be half-naked in order to get attention or get recognized. And it

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made me think back on my past, you know. You could say that I was kind of into

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those type of girls. The ones with the booty out, you know, showing a little

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skin, showing this, showing that. And I never corrected them and in my mind I

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knew they wasn't wifey material. I knew these weren't the type of girls that I

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wanted to settle down with but it was in the moment, urge, you know, lusting. It was

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lusting. I'm gonna call it for what it is. It was more lustful than loving. So a

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time where I could have corrected that female, I could have corrected her and

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been like, nah, this ain't right. You know, you shouldn't go about it this way.

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You can put some clothes on and be presentable and respectful and get

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attention and demand attention in the room. I just decided to sleep with these

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girls knowing that I didn't have a future, want a future with these girls.

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Knowing that I didn't want anything else after that night with these girls. So

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what does that teach or what does that help? Who does that help? It

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helps nobody. So that's my point that I'm getting to. When you be

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accountable, you can point out your wrongs. You can fix yourself firstly

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because that's what it's about. Once you fix yourself first and you get the

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ingredients of how to be the best man or female that you can be, then you can try

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to help others and you know encourage others and things like that because that

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old saying, how you treat others is how you feel about yourself. Let me state

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that again. How you treat others most likely is how you feel about yourself. So

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be accountable, you know I'm saying and everybody, ladies be accountable. You

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know, don't use your past experience of why I'm like this or men. Don't use your

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past experience of like why I'm like this or I didn't have a father so I don't

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know how to be a father. Oh I didn't really have a positive woman in my life

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so I don't know how to be a lady. Those are all excuses. Yes it's hard but you

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can't let others dictate your story, your narrative. You know I'm saying and for

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one you have to educate yourself. You have to do a lot of soul-searching

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researching and you have to confront problems head-on. You can't sweep problems

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under the rug. That's another thing that we do as a black community. We sweep

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things under the rug and you have to be truthful. You have to tell the truth. The

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truth hurts but the truth is there to help and fix you. So you have to learn

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how to be truthful because that's what prevails and that's what helps us all

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in the end. And lastly keep God first. Pray about it. You did.

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Hi man it's Quincy Murdoch Not Just Music Podcast. Man I just wanted to drop

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another one. Y'all be safe out there. Be blessed and hold yourself accountable.