Growth Through Apology - Sunday Vibes

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Good evening people. What's going on? It's your boy Duane Barino. Not just music

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podcast. Quick tap in Sunday moves Sunday vibe. Hopefully everybody's doing good.

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Hopefully everybody is doing great. Excellence on this good Sunday. Just

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want to push out again push out a quick word. Nothing bad. All good vibes. A lot

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of times dealing with people. A lot of times dealing with situations. A lot of

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times dealing with these bad things that could be detrimental to your

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mentality. You tend to do things to people that you really don't mean to.

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You say things to people that you really don't mean to. And I think it's really

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just nature that you do it. But a lot of times it's hard to curve it after you've

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shot your shot. You know after you say what you said after you did what you

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did after you created that action. And I think that sometimes you know can

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sometimes put you in a bad place mentally because you know sometimes that

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you might have been wrong for what you did. Be the look up person and just

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apologize. Stop taking apology so far to the point where it's degrading your

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character. It's not degrading your character. It's actually improving your

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character because it's nothing like learning a lesson from yourself. You

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didn't have to go ask anybody for you know the lesson just drops in your lap.

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And a lot of stuff actually comes from that. That can be good. So look at the

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good stuff that happens from that. You know you boost yourself into another

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place of I'm going to do better. And I think everybody really wants to do

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better. I think a lot of us just still struggle with the part where you know

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the weakening you know you have to go through a tough time to be in a stronger

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time. You know it's not saying that even during the strong times you won't have

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those hard times you know but again if you don't ever put yourself in that

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uncomfortable position you'll never feel you know like you've moved on from

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something or it's you're growing from something. If not you just continue to

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stick in that same place. So again it's not hard to you know it's not hard to do

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but it can be hard to do but you just have to understand you have to let

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that vulnerability hit. Let it hit you. You know suck it up.

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Suck it up. Take it and apologize and move on. You know if that person wants to

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allow you back into their lives. Good if not it's a learning lesson. You learn

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something but don't be so fast to jump in people's lives and then get out of

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their lives immediately. That's not to me that's like one of the craziest things.

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Don't bring people into your life that you don't plan to grow with period. That's

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just if you're not growing and if you don't see yourself growing from a

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situation with somebody you know to me you usually can see it immediately. If

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you don't see yourself growing with somebody immediately it's probably not

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gonna be the case. And again I think those relationships like that take those

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harsh endings due to ones that they feel that they love but they really don't

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really love them. It was just that a feeling and emotion for that time.

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And it's nothing wrong with it but just remember don't attach yourself to it to

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a point where you know it's shaking your life up. It's taking you out of

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character. You know once you start seeing yourself go out of character that

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means that that relationship is not helping. But again this is just a Sunday

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vibe. It's just what's on me what I feel. Things to make you know better for

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people. For people to feel better to do better. Remember you're gonna have to go

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through a tough time. You're going to do something wrong.

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Nobody is perfect but in the process of your wrong just remember where you can

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say that you apologize to whomever maybe it could be your child. It could be a

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parent. It could be a spouse. It could be a friend. It could be a stranger on the

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street because sometimes we get in a haste and we do things and we might bump

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into somebody and we don't mean to take the time to apologize. It'll just help you

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be more careful as you're moving about through the streets. You know what I mean?

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Again this is not a usual pod but again just a vibe. Just a vibe you know. Hopefully

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everybody enjoys the rest of the evening. I'm gonna sit back relax chill. Enjoy my

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family that's it. Hopefully you can do the same if you don't have any if you

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don't have the same thing find your peaceful place and just sit back and

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chill. Enjoy yourself. That's growth too. Just enjoy yourself and learn how to

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be by yourself and do things along. That's growth.

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Thank you. Alright. Love.