Criticism ft Q - Just My Advice

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,000 Yo Q what up? 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Man I'm keeping it real what up the what? 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:08,000 Welcome 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,000 to not 5 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:14,000 just music 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,000 where we keep it real 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,000 and honest 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,000 always 9 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,000 How I really feel 10 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,000 My mama praying telling me Q 11 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,000 You need to chill 12 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,000 They can't respect the truth 13 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,000 What's good, what's good beautiful people 14 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,000 It's your boy Quincy Murdock 15 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,000 once again 16 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,000 coming back at you with another one 17 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,000 hope everybody is having 18 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,000 a positive 19 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,000 day 20 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,000 whether it's night, morning, whenever you're hearing this 21 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,000 I hope your day is 22 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,000 filled with blessings you know 23 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,000 you're succeeding 24 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,000 and doing everything that you 25 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,000 visualize doing 26 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,000 today I want to talk about 27 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,000 basically accepting criticism 28 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,000 handling criticism 29 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,000 I want to say this 30 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,000 I think us as people sometimes we tend 31 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,000 to think that 32 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,000 everything 33 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,000 that somebody is saying to us 34 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,000 or any advice 35 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,000 somebody gives us whether 36 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,000 it's something we want to hear or not 37 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,000 is actually 38 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,000 they're trying to hurt us 39 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,000 but a lot of times you know criticism 40 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,000 is there to help 41 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,000 I just want to use a 42 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,000 personal experience with me 43 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,000 and my brother you know what I'm saying 44 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,000 my brother from another 45 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,000 the wine burino 46 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,000 me and him had recently had 47 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,000 a little misunderstanding 48 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,000 a little fall out 49 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,000 I was in my feelings about 50 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,000 life 51 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,000 situations and you know 52 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,000 dealing with things and 53 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,000 I think I had got 54 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,000 some new equipment 55 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,000 to shoot you know 56 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,000 to do some work on my own 57 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,000 music and 58 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,000 podcasts and via 59 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,000 you know stuff we do 60 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,000 I think I had asked him a question 61 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,000 through text messaging and 62 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,000 the response 63 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,000 came off to me 64 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,000 as like it was 65 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,000 disrespectful 66 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,000 now 67 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,000 for one 68 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,000 never 69 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,000 never 70 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,000 take text messages 71 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,000 serious 72 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,000 always pick up the phone 73 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,000 and call if it's a misunderstanding 74 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,000 or if it's like a long 75 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,000 story situation 76 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,000 something you need to talk out 77 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,000 pick up the phone and call 78 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,000 that person that's my first piece 79 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,000 of advice 80 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,000 you know communication 81 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,000 because how you read things 82 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,000 may be perceived differently 83 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,000 by how you actually 84 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,000 hear things on the phone 85 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,000 via phone 86 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,000 so 87 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,000 it was taken the wrong way 88 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,000 when it came off in the text messages 89 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,000 and all that for one 90 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,000 two 91 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,000 overreaction 92 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,000 overreacted you know 93 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,000 when you're in your 94 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,000 feelings when you have something on your mind 95 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,000 and I think he spoke on this 96 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,000 when you're in your feelings and you have 97 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,000 something on your mind you're in a negative 98 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,000 state 99 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,000 something is bothering you 100 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,000 you're not going to look and view 101 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,000 or see anything 102 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,000 with an open mind 103 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,000 or right mind 104 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,000 you're going to be on defense because you're 105 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,000 already in a defensive mode 106 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,000 so calm down first 107 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,000 before you 108 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,000 collect these thoughts 109 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,000 and come to a conclusion of what you think 110 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,000 it is 111 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,000 lastly 112 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,000 criticism 113 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,000 he actually 114 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,000 pushed me to 115 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,000 learn it on my own 116 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,000 the criticism wasn't 117 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,000 to hurt me the criticism 118 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,000 was to help me 119 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,000 which in the long run I developed 120 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,000 and studied and learned 121 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,000 the equipment myself and started 122 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,000 working so 123 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,000 I always 124 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,000 well don't always but most 125 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,000 times take criticism as it's there to 126 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,000 help it's not there to hurt 127 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,000 you know a lot of people out here 128 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,000 want to help you 129 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,000 excuse me want to help you instead of hurt you 130 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,000 so you just have to 131 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,000 and realize everybody's not against 132 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,000 you in this world everybody's not against 133 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,000 you you have some good people out 134 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,000 here you have some 135 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,000 good minded people that want 136 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,000 to help and everything so 137 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,000 that's just one 138 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,000 another episode that I wanted to drop 139 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,000 I hope you all enjoyed it 140 00:04:44,000 --> 00:05:06,000 y'all be bliss